f you love one girl deeply and another girl love you also,what will you do or how to deal with this situation
2006-11-19 21:36:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well theres no, 1, correct answer for this question. It all depends on the situation, and each individual involved. You have to ask yourself, What is most important to you in your life? What do you want?Who do you want to please and make happy? Are your own feelings most important to you, or does making someone else happy, bring more contentment. Are you a giver, a taker, or simply a pleaser. Whatever your answer to these questions maybe, just know, almost everyone has been in a situation like this somewhere in their life, and for some it was an easy decision, for others it was a very hard one. Either way there is going to be someone hurt. So whatever you decide, remember the one who is going to suffer, the most part of the pain, should be dealt with as much kindness, as can be handed their way. Im sorry to know, yet another heart is to be broken. Good luck and healthy healing for you and those involved.
2006-11-19 21:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Gena *n* GA. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was reading your story (Up until the part about him meeting another girl) I felt like I was reading my own life story. My marriage is totally the same. My husband never shows me he loves me. and UNLIKE what other people are saying this doesnt give him the right to go off and find some slurry to 'fall in love' with. We've had fights about this and last night he stepped it up. I feel so bad for you because I know the feeling of thinking you're in a loveless marriage and you're just so thirsty for their attention and affection. I dont think its possible for him to fall in love with a woman after 2 days. I'd say that he was already seeing her. To be honest, if he is running off with this woman then you really only have a few choices. You can keep contacting him and try and convince him to come home and work on it, you can live a single life and see if he comes around, or you can get a divorce and move on, be with your son and try and find someone who will put the effort into the relationship that they should be. I hope you get a wonderful outcome! be strong and good luck!
2016-03-29 02:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have to think do the girl you love deeply loves you deeply too, if not try to mate with the girl who loves you.
2006-11-19 21:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well situation 1. u love one girl deeply does she love u as well?if she does thn forget the second one and continue with your relationship. but if she doesnt love u then u are the one who needs to decide wht u hav to do, there is no point forcing someone to love you and its better to be loved as in to love
2006-11-19 21:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by riya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it safe to go for one who loves you, someone who loves you cares for you, will not hurt you, will do anything to keep you and will always be there for you. The problem with men is: you don't really know what you want, you enjoy having multiple lovers and you really don't see who truly loves you. In this case one will be heartbroken but you have to stick to one who is best for your anyway. Yourself knows who is best for you. Obey your instincts.
2006-11-19 22:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by 1967.08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose some1 who loves you very much.u can learn to love some1 but u cant teach some 1 to love u ...as simple as dat
2006-11-19 21:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by danni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get the best of both worlds.
2006-11-19 21:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is more important in ur life the one u lov or the one who loves u!!
2006-11-19 21:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just stick to my heart and i will do wht my heart says.just blive your heart and move forward buddy.
Bye
2006-11-19 21:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by guna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one who is richer.
2006-11-19 21:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋