how 2 convine my dads first wife and their son? Wil I b marid in a gud family? whom i shld blame 4 dis problm?

Question

My grnd fathr dint seach a partnr til my mom(Miss.X) atains age 32. so she chosd her own partnr(let him be Mr.Y). then she found he has many bad affairs wit ladies and he was alrdy marid. so she(X) left him(Y). Her aim was 2 have a baby. So she found a man(Z-her family friend) who was nt satisfd wit his wife.(they had a four yrs son). She(X) askd him(Z) 2 marry her (without the knowldge of 1st wife,all mony which he earns, goes 2 his 1st wife only,he rarely cums 2 secnd wife house-this is the agreement between them) dey marid and i was born(acordng 2 all, Mr.Y is my dad) Nw i m 20 yrs old girl (i have nevr shown my dad 2 any). My parnts told all these only wen i was 15yrs. No one else, expt me and my parnts knows this secrt. Now some how i found my brother (my dads son) I m afraid 2 tel him i m his step sister(bcos he is vry resrvd.) I have to convince my dads first wife also. I dont know how to convince. Moreover i dont have any hope tat i wil b marid in a gud family, due2 dis problm

Answer 1

I would blame and sue, whoever it was who tried to teach you English!

Answer 2

All you can do is come forward and tell them what your parents told you. It will be up to them if they believe it or not, you can't force them to acknowledge you. Unless they are willing to do DNA testing with you. I can see that you want to be a part of your brothers life, but this may come as a big shock to all.

Now just because your family has these problems doesn't mean you won't have a good marriage yourself or have a good family of your own one day. Take the lessons you have learned from what went on with your Mom and make your own choices when it comes to marriage and family.

Answer 3

Hi there,

Why do you want to speak to your step mom or step brother? If you really want to blame someone for your life than you have to blame you mom as according to you her aim was to have a baby. Confront your parents and ask them why did they do this to you.
As far as getting married to someone is concerned yes there will be a problem but i suggest when you find someone please tell him the truth in the very begining if he really loves you nothing will matter.
Dear you are actually very confused if you can i think you can also take some councelling if possible it will help you.

Answer 4

There will be someone who likes u and loves u, u have ur own destiny, u will get marry to a good one, just be confident and have faith in god , u r not responsible for all the things. Just don't expect more from any relationship and be yourself beyond all the relations u have ur own personality be positive everything will be all right, i will pray god for u.

Answer 5

LBJ * Lyndon Baines Johnson would win this contest simply because of his politics in the 60`s allowed the seeds` of Liberal Socialism to be planted and nurtured under Johnson ! Hillary is just one of the many Liberal Socialist seed`s planted back then ! Now that Liberal crop has been harvested after the 50 year incubation period ! The Moral " Don`t let someone plant your garden for you ; like we let Johnson plant ours` " !

Answer 6

get up and stop expecting,see d truth,ur parents had a agreement,so it should stand,do not interfere not worth it,you r u and then u have a father's name,why beg or expect from a man who did not intend 2 give u anything from the begining?look at me, my father married my mom,had me & just left 2 be with his mistress,but i am my own person'n'happy,surely u can better me on that!

Answer 7

This should not be a problem at all among Christians. If you can find a Christian school to attend or health facility to work at, you will be loved for yourself alone and find a good and faithful mate.

Answer 8

have you any clue as to how annoying it is to try to read thru all your home made abbreviatons?

Are you retarded or in the 4th grade???

No one will take anything you write seriously if you write like a moron.

I got through the 1st three sentences and that was it for me.

Good luck filling out a job application.