What is it and if you could do something to change it what would it be. And please do NOT say "I have no regrets" because if you are a human you have done something that you regret.
AND please try to keep religion out of your answers.
2006-11-19 20:47:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i think that regrets are something that people still dread to the day and will forever.. i love where i am at the moment.. if i didnt have my past, i wouldnt have met my hubby... but now that i have.. i have one regret from recently...
about a month ago, i found out i was having a girl... me and my hubby both wanted a boy, him more than i, i really just wanted the baby... but n e ways... he is deployed, and under stress , and i am hormonal and all alone, in germany, no family.. so when i told him it was a girl, the last thing i needed to hear came out of his mouth "oh" i was so devestated... he already has a daughter and he told me that once he found out he was gonna be a dad the first time he really wanted a lil girl.. well that killed me, i felt like a failure and i feared that my daughter will always feel like one also... so that night, i tried to kill her... it didnt work, but now i dont know what will happen when she comes out... im 25 weeks preg. and i took something i was given when i had a misscarriage, its supposed to help release ur uterus from the baby... well i threw up right after i took it, so i dont think i got to ingest it, but i know i f*cked up biggg time.. and its the one and only thing that i regret in my entire life, and i havent been an angel.. but dont judge me... my life hasnt been great and i am under a ton of emotional stress, i have always grown up feeling incompetant and as though no matter what i wasnt good and i never could be, i still have the feelings with my hubby and he tries to do a good job at making me feel good... but he messes up sometimes tooo and ends up hurting me more... its horrible and i cant beileve that i am telling u, but u asked...
2006-11-19 20:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by red.one9luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of things I regret in my life such as how many (adult) years I spent without consciousness - if it's the right word. I think it's rather that I didn't know what is good in having responsibilities, I was afraid of them and I felt helpless , and I acted as if I was still 12.
Another thing is I that I didn't believe in myself enough and acted as a loser. I do not regret however that I let my husband leave me with 2 little girls, because things turned for the better, I found a very loving and reliable husband (of course not without faults).
And I regret the way I spoke to my parents and my late grandparents when I was an adolescent.
And one more thing: I did not learn how to keep my home tidy and friendly. See § 1.
2006-11-19 21:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by Agnes K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to have to disappoint you and say that I have no regrets. Why? Because I realize that even when I seemingly made a bad choice related to something, I made the best out of that bad situation, and good things followed. Good things always follow the bad.
2006-11-19 22:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hear, hear, no regrets = no remorse and denial.
My worst regret is staying in a marriage for the sake of the children for 17years and not allowing myself to be me for all that time.
Oooh, deep. Ten points to you for the best delving question of the day.
2006-11-19 20:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by kate d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My worst regret so far is not respecting myself with some of the decisions I did recently & by giving it all without looking at the returns.
2006-11-19 21:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has regrets, but lingering on them is a sign of depression. But while we are on the subject, not sleeping with a girl that I know I could have. DAMN
2006-11-19 20:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my worst regret was i didn't tell my grandfather how much i cared for him when he was alive, i was being naughty back then, always kicking him, screaming at him as though he should listen to me..one day he went back to hometown and that was the ery last tme i saw him..he passed away after that..he realy loved me..and i regret not caring back for him..now he is gone..and i was a decade late to realise i was wrong
2006-11-19 20:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by tata bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only things I regret are the things I never done. When you do do things you never know how it will turn out so you do them and learn from your expierences
2006-11-19 20:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I regret that I have but one life to give for my country. Uh, sorry, I guess that one's already been used.
2006-11-19 20:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by terry t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no regret in your life !
that is things that make you you !
do you tell yourself that everyday that what you did was wrong ? you don't have to be sorry for anything in your life or for anything that you did ! forget and forgive yourself and it will bring you so much more in your life in return ! say to yourself every day : i forgive myself , i am at peace with myself , i accept myself , i am healed and i am whole with myself !
try this it works !
with all my love
lelani
:)
2006-11-19 21:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by lelanilama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋