in my house my elder brother gong to shift his stay from our family as per the inspriration of his wife .but mother is felt upset by hearing this because she loves him more than me and his presence gives her more comfort after my fathers death which happened 4 years ago. my mother and daughter in law is not maintianing a good relationship.now my marriage id fixed and brothers wife is holding more grip for shifting of stay.but our hosuse is two storied and there is space for comfatable stay. I am expecting a valuable solution which will not affect our good relation
2006-11-19 20:28:04 · 5 answers · asked by vdk555 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If i was her i would leave to...Your bother is not your mothers husband...Your mother is relying on your brother to much...Don't get involved in this, staying out of it will keep you safe...
2006-11-19 21:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you expect your sister in law to be forced to stay in this house when she doesn't want to? She has a right to have her own life with her husband, she's not a married slave of your mother and I'm sure your mother might not be treating her the best possible way either...that's why your sister in law wants to move. She has every right to move and I think it will be best for the whole situation if she does move away and take her husband with her. Your mother should have thought of the eventual separation of herself and her son when he got married, otherwise she should have kept him unmarried and trapped at home forever. Your sister in law has her own rights and just because she married your brother doesn't mean that she is now your mother's slave. You have to get married and leave home, very soon you will find out how hard it is to live with in-laws and bear with their endless problems.
2006-11-20 04:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good your brother and his wife are moving. Your mother needs to grow up.
2006-11-20 06:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get answer to this question once you get married,your mother is too emotional and I doesn't find any thing wrong with your brother moving out.after all its his life and it will be good if you don't inter fare in all this.
2006-11-20 06:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by simplewife20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be generous and love each other, share each other to have happy family - united we stand divided we fall
2006-11-20 04:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋