Allright. It sounds like you need some more information. They are divorced because the ex cheated and got pregnant with the other guys kid. Then she started playing games with his daughter, keeping her from him, for months. I can understand why he doesn't trust women, or even his own feelings. Second, the age is not an issue. I have done my share of partying, having fun, etc. I'm not interested in that life anymore. We were together for a year and a half. That's another big factor. And also, the ex already knows of my existance. And his daughter loves me, and I her. And because my parents are divorced, I feel a strong need to be there for her. So, there's a little more info. That way the answers are more fitting to the question. Thanks.
2006-11-19 20:22:35 · 4 answers · asked by Raye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've read all three of your questions and my first impression is that this guy has a lot of baggage. My 2nd thought is that if he is letting his ex influence his decisions after you were together for a year and a half, it probably won't stop.
My advice would be you start calling the shots. Be prepared to move on if he doesn't like it. You have the right to know if you can depend on him or not, and if you can't find someone you can.
Another thing to consider, if he can't "trust" you because of his ex, and you end up together its' possible he's going to end up like one of these guys that is constantly accusing you and checking up on you. You have a lot to work out before you start any kind of serious relationship with this guy. Not only for your sake, but for the sake of his daughter whose had enough instability in her life.
2006-11-19 21:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by LilRedHrdGrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make an excuse for your bf. When it comes to a divorce, don't hear only from one side, it's better to know the other's story too. I would lose respect on someone who's telling bad things about her/his ex.
If he said he doesn't trust women or himself, so...it's better to move on. He could have time to build the trust again before he's ready to the 'market' again.
And from the previous story, he wants you not to be in his appartment when his daughter is there, that's not a good sign. Especially because the daughter loves you, and so you.
2006-11-20 04:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya all are just a bunch of 'dogs in heat' the whole bunch of ya need to go see a vet and get spayed/nutered!!!
2006-11-20 04:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't see any problem.
2006-11-20 04:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋