I'm 25/f and I want to get married and have a family. Every guy that I date is to immature and doesn't want to have a "real relationship". It's not that I haven't been asked, I just want to get married once and it to be for life. Am I missing something?? Any help would be great!
2006-11-19 20:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by blissful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe your looking to hard and in the wrong place...
2006-11-19 21:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea...??
you're missing the fact that marriage should involve a lot more than just " once & for all "..
I think it should be against the law to get married before the age of 25, so why the rush....???
I never new what true love was till ? oh, guess I don't, thought I did twice, but 2 mistakes & half a life time later...
you have a whole world ahead of you....relax...
2006-11-19 20:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, and probably younger, I was feeling the same thing. But out of the blue, I met a guy at church and we were married when I was 28, had first baby at 30, and here I am over 17 years later. At that moment, I had been dating someone else, but then things just steamrolled.
So, just wanted to let you know that it is really true that sometimes someone comes along when you are least expecting it....
2006-11-19 22:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can't make someone you want to marry, marry you. Maybe the men you want to marry are the ones that aren't interested in marrying, whereas the men you who want to marry you are not 'exciting' enough. Many women pursue the wrong types of men, thereby setting themselves up for disappointment.
I think you may need to date man who's not really exciting, but also not a twerp either. A man who's nice but also little bent so you can feel that sexual fission.
2006-11-19 20:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its better to be single than married to the wrong individual. Better wait for Mr. Right to turn up rather than end up with Mr. Right Now...so chill, get to know yourself better, read books on love and relationships, date like-minded individuals and find the guy that you want to spend the rest of your life with...you could try someone older as they are generally more mature but not someone who's divorced etc. because they bring a whole new set of emotional baggage to their next relationship.
2006-11-19 20:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it may be that you just haven't met the right person i suggest you try other places to meet other people and have fun don't worry about getting married your 25 you still have a few couple of years dating
2006-11-19 20:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by murdoc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. 1) Something happens to men at age 30. Click. 2) Like you say, "It only takes one." 3) Your guy wants you as badly as you want him. You are not the seeker. You are the prize. (Hmmm Where would a guy who's interested in a motherly type go to find one?)
2006-11-19 20:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 24 and i have the same problems just with the girls being to immature and not wanting to settle down. its like dang i want to have a family while im young not when im to old to enjoy babies and grandbabies.
2006-11-20 00:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by big_poppa2x 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm well honey the perfect man is rtight up there with Father Christmas, the Tooth Fairy, the Boogie man and God as things that do not exist........get out and start enjoying life
2006-11-19 21:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date an older man who belongs to your church
2006-11-19 20:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by George G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋