no volgar msgs r entertained!
2006-11-19 19:45:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know by the way he looks at you, with a look in his eye that says his soul could never live without you. HE holds your hand all the time so that everyone knows you are his. You fall asleep in his arms everynight with hi, holding you so tight that you know he will never let you go and he kisses you first thing in the morning. Calls you more than 2 a day just to say he was thinking about you. Even when your at your worst he tells you your beautiful and thinks you looks the best first thing in the morning (when you think you look the worst). You know he loves you when he makes sure to make you laugh at least 3 ties a day and can't waste any moment to kiss you or say I love you. He is your husband, why else would he have married you if it wsnt because he loved you!!! Look into his eyes and look into his soul...You know he loves you no matter what
2006-11-19 19:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Trouble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for the note saying no volgar msgs. It is very dissappointing to see that when you speak about love people respond with volgarity.
I have been together with my husband since 86 and even now he has never let me down. He has alway been available in every situation even when my father was ill and needed to be assisted since he was not able to walk and I worked on Sundays. He would be with my father all day doing things for him etc... Don't you think that shows how much a person loves and cares about you and the people that you love!!! For me there a e no temptations that would make me change him for another man.
I have been extremly lucky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-19 20:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the starting up, this isn't a question. Secondly, love is a VERB. that is not purely an emotion or a tingly butterfly feeling you get on your abdomen. Are you waking up each and every morning and making a wakeful attempt to love your husband with your movements, with your words, and with your attitude? If not, then what are you waiting for?? that is the guy that you PROMISED to love for something else of your existence, and in case you do not make a wakeful attempt to attempt this, you're literally not honoring your marriage vows. third, you want to observe of that love adjustments. So, you're good, you may not "love him like formerly," yet that doesn't meant that you want him a lot less or for you to easily throw contained in the towel and go away. As love matures, you commence to love people otherwise, yet many times that is an more advantageous, deeper, extra honest and real looking love. once you first fall in love, many times you won't be able to sleep or eat, you spend each and every waking second questioning about the guy, you discuss them continuously, and your each and every action revolves round them. that is valuable, besides the undeniable fact that that is onerous and un-sustainable. once you've been married for fifty years, the possibilities are severe solid that you're literally not likely to be doodling your husband's call on each and every accessible scrap of paper like you may've done in severe college, yet you likely will love him on a a lot deeper aspect than you've been ever able to at age 18.
2016-11-29 07:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The book (or any site that talks about the book) The 5 Love Languages will really help.
You can't assume that if your hubby buys you stuff then he loves you.... or anything else for that matter.
We all have our way of expressing love - find out your hubby's love language to find out if you are reading him right. Maybe you think he doesn't love you because he doesn't (for example) buy you things.
But instead his love language is "Quality Time"!
Or maybe he gives you all this time (which you think is annoying) but YOUR love language is "Acts of Service" --- you jsut want him to help with the kids and housework. Or leave you a nice note!
See how it's so much about finding your love language and his love language. KNOWING this information and understanding to identify and appreciate what he does with the intention that you will receive and love/appreciate it is really powerful. Then, because he loves you, he will understand what your love language is and learn how to do more of those things to "fill you up" and meet your needs.
Do things that meet his love language and he will have an extra kick to "flex" and do things to meet yours, as well.
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On a separate note, but related, I think the bottomline is "intention". I know my significant other loves me because his intentions are almost always right. Even if he isn't expressing himself right I stop and think "Is it really his intention to come across the way this really seems?" and almost always the answer is NO but that it's just a communication gap or being lazy......
2006-11-19 20:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by purpleklipse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish there would have been husbandometer which tests and tells how much he loves you. Just joking these are feelings which at moment comes out by itself, or sometimes needs to be brought out, by outing, going for a tour alone, going for a long drive, this clearly would tell you the answer of that.
2006-11-20 03:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It differs from person to person. It is strange that you expect answer for your question from others who neither know you nor your husband.
If u both do not understand each other, then how can u expect others to help you. If u both care for each other, that is love. If u both understand each other`s emotions, that is love. If u both donot hurt each other, that is love.
Please donot make fun of love by throwing it in the market. It is sacred relationship between a husband and wife.
2006-11-20 01:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jagannath Nagoorkar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He tells you he loves you
He shows you he loves you
He works for the family, he is interested in you as a person
Are you feeling that your husband doesnt love you? Ask him
Some men have trouble showing emotion.
2006-11-19 19:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isn't something you should really question. If you do that means there is something wrong. Either with you or him.
Does he say the words?
DO you question your love for him?
and most importantly what brought about these feeling of doubt in you?
2006-11-19 19:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good answers. I would add that I know that my husband loves me because he loves me as he would love himself. His love is unconditional and selfless. I believe that it comes with the attitude that when you join in marriage the two become as one!
2006-11-20 01:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know my CL husband loves me by the things he says to me, the things he does for me, the way he treats our daughter,the way he asks me about my day and shows general interest in my life, the way he understands how to "deal" with me when I'm grumpy/sad/angry, the way he knows what i need to here, the way he cleans the house, the way he cooks for me...etc etc
2006-11-19 20:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by SunnySmile83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋