I know I really hurt him. It had to do with his abuse as a child. I am completely stumped as to what to say or do to make it up to him.
2006-11-19 19:09:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What husband? Posting silly questions like the one above won't help with you with long term loneliness. Get out there and meet someone. I believe when you posted the question below, it was more sincere.
I am extremely short and childlike in appearance but I'm an adult! What are some ways I can attract guys?
Tired of being lonely.
2006-11-19 19:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can say you did it to get under his skin because he was making you mad what you need to do is make it up to him all the things you do that make him made stop for a day or two make his favorite meal do something that is in your budget that he has wanted for a while it wont take back what you said but he will know your sorry and forgive you just dont use the same comment in another argument because than your just done
2006-11-19 19:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize. pour your heart out to him. decide now that you will not say hurtful things like that in the future. do you hear what you just said? "to my husband for the sole purpose of hurting him.."?? that's terrible... he had people doing things to him as a child for the sole purpose of hurting him, and you are supposed to be a safe haven, his wife, to him. explain this to him and yourself. tell him how much you love him and you are sorry. stand by his side. touch him. give him patience. i hope all works out in the end.
God bless you two.
2006-11-19 19:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever done cannot be undone...! Hurtfull words can be damaging to someone pride or confident or ego..
Even a thousand apologies wont help, what you can do now is start to regain his trust and avoid anymore hurtful remarks and have to be sincere in making up to him.
2006-11-19 19:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd apologize to him and tell him how much you regret what you said. Tell him your human and being so you sometimes say some stupid things without thinking when your upset. Hope he forgives you and the next time think before you say something. Like my father used to say to us when we were kids "one thing you can never take back and that is words." How true it is.
2006-11-19 19:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im SORRY! I know sometimes we say thing because we want to see the affect that we really want to see. But You have to fix that quick. Apologizes quick and never bring it up again!
Never!
2006-11-19 19:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by want-my-advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain why you said it, and maybe he'll be able to let go. Apologize like crazy, and sucking up tp him won't be too bad either.
2006-11-19 19:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot right a wrong with a wrong. He must be emotionally traumatised. Just show that you are sincere in your apology.
2006-11-19 19:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you won't be able to. You may have damaged the emotional trust.
2006-11-19 19:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad choice on your part.let the past just be that the past. my opion?
2006-11-19 19:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋