2006-11-19 18:53:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Some people find religion.
Some people talk to a therapist.
A couple become bodybuilders and go on TV shows and make their nemeses lick the bottom of their shoes.
Most people simple reach the conclusion that those f*cking ******* aren't worth the energy, and a life well-lived is the best revenge. Most people let it go, because those same people are still torturing you and they aren't even around anymore.
And a real minority act out on it.
2006-11-19 19:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive them for what they did. You have to let it go. or else you'll never be able to move on with your life. paste the pain and heart ache. but never forget what they did. It may be hard to see why you must forgive them. but once you do. you will be truly at peace. when you forgive them.. all the hatred washes away. just remeber what they did to you. don't allow the same people to get close to you. Or it will be a cycle. Its a waste of a life to dwell on your past. cuz your just wasting time. when you could be living. yet this pain seems to be stopping ya. perhaps.
2006-11-20 03:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Chikia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to do it is follow thru on your actions. No one likes people who are quitters. Then when you're sitting in prison with several life sentences you will finally be at peace with yourself. Good luck with your murderous rampage,and prison terms.
2006-11-20 02:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Roy Munson 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one, realize that there will always be people in your life who will wrong you either on purpose or accidentally. Then realize that you unknowingly or knowingly have also wronged people. Don't you want people to forgive and understand you for the wrongs you did? You need to have the same compassion for them as you would want from them. It's all part of life and you need to understand it happens to all of us.
2006-11-20 02:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive them and forget. Do yourself a favor. It is you who is suffering, not them. You spent countless sleepless nights thinking of them, while they sleep soundly snoring. What they did to you, help you in becoming stronger and a better person, Someone who could withstand any onslaught of a strong storm because of your experience.
2006-11-20 03:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn forgiveness. You might want to get some professional help in the mean time.
2006-11-20 03:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by highchaparral2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a therapist. You obviously need some closure.
2006-11-20 02:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must end your suffering by murdering the people that wronged you. I recommend doing it yourself, then you'll feel much better.
2006-11-20 03:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jay S 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to see a therapist. Good luck
2006-11-20 02:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by wannaknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will get theirs.
they will wrong someone who is having a very bad day and get killed.
your life is too important to think about them. they are not thinking about you.
2006-11-20 02:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋