Please suggest me for the medicenes and how to take those and are they present in india. please help me as soon as possible, suggest me how to take those medicenes, its not possible for me to go to clinic and i cant tell my parents, my boyfriend is also supporting me for this. but i want the name of medicenes to take to abort in initial phase, which are available in india, and how to take the dose. i will be thankful if you suggest me and help me. thank you.
2006-11-19 18:21:55 · 19 answers · asked by chilwan50 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
hey i m sorry to know wht u r going thru.but for god's sake DONT go for abortion.i of my friends took these pills nd i can't express the trauma she went thru.there was unbearable pain and inspite of this the abortion was incomlete.she had to undergo surgical operation.it was painful too.then she developed some allergy,god knw's how & is still undergoing treatment.she wont b able to conceive till the time she is undergoing treatment.her life has become a nightmare.so i wld sincerely advise u not to take the pills,even if it is prescribed by a doctor.
2006-11-22 19:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arn't prepared to have a baby you shouldn't be having sex. At home abortions will risk your life. Is upsetting your parents worse then you possibably dying from amature abortion at home. Have you and your bf actually put serious thought in to what you are about to do? I believe you are so concerning about the fact that your parents will find out that you have been having sex then the fact that you have created a new life. You need to make sure how you feel about the baby. If you don't you might spend the rest of your life feeling like you killed your child. Not everyone feels that way.
I know many many men and women who 30 years later think about the child that they got rid of because they didn't want to feel shame from the family. The shame is brief compared to the life of your son or daughter.
You need to be sure that you can cope with the death of your child. If you don't see it as that then do what you need to do. But, do it through the doctor. At home is way too risky.
You have done an adult act by having sex. Now it is honorable that you and your boyfriend act as adults and face what you have done. Step up to the challange and face your families and do what needs to be done.
2006-11-20 02:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I am sorry to hear of your predicament.
However, please do not go for these pills. First they mess up with your body and I have heard, they may lead to complications in the future. I had a friend who got into trouble, the same way as you. I know it was wrong , but she was my friend so I helped her with it. We saw a gynaecologist and got it aborted. It is a simple surgery and it doesn't take more than half an hour to get it done. she took half a day off from work and got admitted and got it done. She then stayed over at my house for a the night. Next day she was back to her place.
So, if you can get a friend to help you out, I would suggest it is better to go the surgical way rather than medicines. Coz it has lesser complications.
All the best!
2006-11-20 02:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You reap what you sow girlfiend!! You can't have unprotected sex and hope to not get pregnant. You should be busy trying to improve your english and get a good education and be someone in life. You can still do that after you give birth. DO NOT ABORT that child does not deserve to die just because you chose not to be reasonable for a while. How will you live with yourself - and by the way lose that boyfriend! He makes you pregnant and yet does not want to deal with the consequences - and you call that 'support' !! You need to grow up first before you indulge in grown-up stuff. Tell your parents - yeah they will be mad but they also have to accept it - they love you enough to accept it. And you must love your child enough to let him/her live.
Its not the end of the world you must keep the child. Think about it seriously.
2006-11-20 03:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are here in the USA and you are sixteen or older you can go to the clinic and they will not call your parents. the only way you can do this is by abortion but you have to be really sure you can handle it emotional you only have until twelve weeks so you need to do some thing soon the faster the better less problems if you do fix your problem you should really think about birth control before you play again
2006-11-20 02:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by krazy4_coke2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only medication you can take to abort is the Morning After pill, but you are too far pregnant to take it. It only works in the first 72 hours of the pregnancy, and you've been pregnant for a month.
You have to go to a clinic or tell your parents. I'm sorry.
2006-11-20 02:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you know that at this stage of pregnancy it is dangerous to try abortion? It may endanger your life and then it is not 100 % sure the baby will be aborted. Sometimes attempts to abort will only make the baby abnormal, and he comes out abnormal, incomplete body parts, are you willing to take care of him or her? It is better to have it and have a normal baby than having an abnormal one. And dangerous for you to, You are compromising both your lives. If you nurture this baby, your parents will be mad at first, that is expected, but when they see their grand kid borne, they will relent... the sight of newborn babies almost always softens unforgiving hearts especially of grand parents. My advice - go on with it and be proud that you can borne a son. Others are trying hard but they can't conceive. Take the challenge and be good to yourself and to your baby. Remember you are his/her only mother,
2006-11-20 15:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE R A SET OF 2 TABLETS.
1) UNWANTED MARKETED BY MANKIND.
Rs. 335/-(ONE TAB.)
2)PRESTAKIND MARKETED BY MANKIND.
Rs.33/-(TWO TAB.)
TAKE THE 1st TAB. A DAY
AND THEN TAKE THE 2nd TAB.AFTER 24 Hrs.
OF THE FIRST.THIS IS SAFE BUT CAUSES MORE BLEEDING THAN NORMAL PERIODS.
AFTER THE 2nd DAY DOSE U WILL GET THE PERIOD ON THE SAME DAY.IT IS SAFE IN REGARD TO HIDE FRM UR PARENTS.
2006-11-21 08:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by Avinash T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just take medication to have an abortion, you could end up hurting yourself seriously, if your boyfriend is wanting you to do this he does not care enought about you. You really should talk to someone older that you trust. Why can't you go to your parents, they maybe more understanding than you think.
2006-11-20 02:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by MRod 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In the words of Kurt Cobain:
"Sit and drink Pennyroyal tea, steal the life thats inside of me"
Its the only thing that works as far as I know. But any herb that causes the uterus to contract would work I would think.
2006-11-20 02:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋