I am just curious, I don't know any gay people, wondering what age and if it was just from no attraction to the opposite sex, or just curiousity?
2006-11-19 18:07:09 · 14 answers · asked by Brandon M 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I didn't know I was gay but knew that I was different when I was as young as 6 years old.I just seemed to develop differently then the boys around me.While I did like some sports and some "boy" stuff, I also liked hanging around with the girls and doing girl stuff.As I got older I knew that I was definitely different because I had strong attractions to men and none to women.I think I was around 13 when I realized that the reason I was so different was because I was gay.But even then I thought it was something I could "fix" and even tried to "fix" it.By the time I was 16 and still could not "fix" my sexuality, I accepted who I was.Even though it meant a life of hardships and family disappointments, I came to accept who I was.It is to bad so many of my family members, including my own mother, could not accept who I was and went as far as disowning me and never having anything to do with me.
2006-11-19 19:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that I suspected that I was gay when I was 12 or 13, but I fought it because I was told that being gay meant that I was a bad person. It wasn't until college that I acknowledged to myself that I was attracted to other guys.
2006-11-20 02:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never had an attraction toward the opposite sex and never had anything against them. I can find anyone attractive though.
2006-11-20 02:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was differetn when I was 5. I knew what homosexual was when I was 9 but I found out about it by being gang raped and so went into denial about being homosexual for the next 31 years. Then at 40 I have finally admitted I am bisexual.
2006-11-20 08:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably realised at about 11 or 12. But back then I did not really know what gay was.
2006-11-20 03:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was very young..In fact my first crush was a girl..I was 4yrs old..it was My older cuz's friend. And then another girl in the first grade...then my first boy crush in 2nd grade...Boy did I grow up confused.. BUT figured it out at 16 and had my first experience at 18... Girlfriend at 23.. at 28 there is No questioning my sexuality I love women more..but do enjoy sleeping with men. (Im BI - with a preference for women)
2006-11-20 04:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the opposite sex never appealed to me. i was raised in the chuch i was thought to believe a certain way but it wasn't how i felt or could change how i seen ppl. so i really didn't accepted it until i was about 17 but i knew when i was like 8.
2006-11-20 03:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have ben this way since as far back as my mind can remember.
When I was only 5 or 6 yrs old - our tenants upstairs had a young grandson, blonde, only 5 yrs old. I adored him and one day I snatched his shorts down in the lobby of the bldg. & I saw his a-s-s
and I Iiked what I saw.
In high school - the first time I ever got changed in the locker room I saw the boys put on their jockstraps and I got hypnotized by their creamy white rumps - and I wanted to stay in the locker room forever and just hang out there. I was not so much interested in their crotch as their nice white a-s-s-e-s to admire.
When I was little boy of maybe 6 or 7 - I rode with my folks ona train to Providence ,Rhode Island to visit Auntie Adele. On this ride 2 handsome young cute navy guys were going home to their town in connecticut, on leave. I was only 6 yrs oldand I climbed on their lap and started to hug them and rub against their chest. they let me sit in their lap and talk to them. I was broken hearted when they got off at New Haven. I never wanted to let go of them. they were handsome WASPy guys, so cute in their uniforms and so goodlooking.
After high school, I got together with a blonde italian guy who got high with me and then I went with him to the private Greenwood cemetery to hang out. I begged him to do me in my a-s-s and he did it and it hurt but I had it coming for a long time. So I lost my virginity that way - not your usual way for boys. I took it like a MAN and proud that I took his manhood all the way inside me.
SO I never felt any feeling towards girls, ever. I never like them at all and I felt I cannot trust them. they're sneaky liars and dangerous snakes. also - I always found guys more beautiful to look at. What turns me on is not so much the dick but rather - the handsome guys' FACES of such beauty that no girls can compare. And I love how guys smell and I like their underwear and the odor of their crotch. I don't like how girls smell. they smell evil and foul odor.
Also I have a very small prick and I'm short in height for a man, so I know that I'm not what women desire. God made me without the qualities which women desire in a man. So I'm better suited to let guys use me as a submissive punk.who takes it up the a-s-s and who gives head to guys.
And I swear this is all the truth - so help me God Almighty.
i hope you understand more now.about how it happens.
2006-11-20 02:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by blackbird 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can e-mail or yim me if you wanna know more or have any other questions.
wow thats a good question....i think i started wondering when i was like 14/15 and pretty sure when i was like 17...but didnt have my first bf til like 9 months ago and im 21 now...
2006-11-20 02:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by pete 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was always gay, i knew from the time i was 3 that i was "different" i never liked girls, i always was attracted to men
2006-11-20 03:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋