2006-11-19 17:44:17 · 24 answers · asked by uni_tesfu2008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-11-20 10:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dark Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know how to make friends? Well don't worry, it's not that hard!! If you want to make friends, just find some people you feel comfortable with and try to start a conversation with them! They won't mind!
Maybe you could join some clubs at school, like a chess club or computer club. Those a great ways to meet people, and you can share your interests with other people that like the same thing you do! Or if your not in school, try joining a gym. That's a good way to meet people ... I have several friends that I met at a gym!
Just be yourself, and don't be afraid of what other people may think of you. Once people get to know you, I'm sure they will like you and want to be with you. Put your head up, feel good about yourself, take a deep breath, and start making friends!
If you need someone to talk to send me a message:
aerozhawk@yahoo.com
- Good luck :-)
2006-11-19 17:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica - AKA - Carolina Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you interested in? A cooking class? a church? a sewing club? A dance team? an art class? A book club? taking new classes? Join whatever really makes you excited.
As soon as you find something your REALLY passionate about, conversations will flow well.
Whenever I'm nervous I tell myself, "Yeah, I'm awesome. Why would anyone judge me. They're too worried about what I'm thinking right now."
You should also be checked for a social anxiety disorder. Your regular family doctor will ask you simple questions and prescribe medicine if necessary.
Good luck and God bless
2006-11-19 17:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Susie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is stop pitying yourself. Nobody can stand a person that has the life is so horrible to me attitude, plus the only friends you'll make from that is ones that feel sorry for you. If you want to make friends then join a club, something your interested in, to meet people who enjoy the same things that you enjoy.
2006-11-19 17:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're taking the first step right now! I have good friends that I've met online. I may not see them, but it's nice to get on my computer after a long day, once my kids and husband are asleep and just have time to talk to other people like me. Other ways I've found to make friends are through work, church, family members and volunteering.
2006-11-19 17:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by casey's girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Internet may be a good place to start: get a few friends on e-mail net, people of different age groups, different interests, communicate well with them (withi=out getting addicted, of course!). gradually you'll come out of the shell! you'll find there is some beautiful region in this tough world!
2006-11-19 17:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in that boat before. I just looked around my neighborhood and found out what classes/groups/whatnot were around. Ended up joining with a local volleyball group and made quite a few friends. Just find something your interested in and start doing it!
2006-11-19 17:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sean R 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel really sorry for you that your crippled and poor. It must be very hard for you to make friends but you should meet some caring and nice people in your life. Remember to always enjoy life as much as you can. Make choices even if there wrong you will gain valuable experience. Never do nothing. I am sure you will make friends as long as you be nice to people seriously.
2006-11-19 17:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
be yourself its corny and everyone says it but its true. the worst thing is to end up with people who annoy you. Look for people with similar interests to you. like if you like music go to youth centre band nights. Start conversations because sitting alone won't always get you friends
2006-11-19 17:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by mcr_fan_4evr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe join a gym, a social club, a church group or just do some volunteer work. You have to get out to meet people.
2006-11-19 17:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to be yourself and eventually you will find people. everyone has to have there special friend. so dont worry it will happpen. but just remember be yourself and dont try to be another person so people will like that person and not like the real you...
2006-11-19 17:47:56 · answer #11 · answered by azza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋