How can i build up confidence?

Question

My confidence level is very low. I lose my confidence very easily. When i work something i am not sure whether i am correct or not always i am in Dilemma, i know i am correct but still i am in confusion. so how can i remove my habit of confusion . My frnds told me u are full of confusion girl. suggest me

Answer 1

believe in yourself,be cool,think that all your rivals are noting more than mad cows.what will happen if you give a wrong answer? well you might get to know the right one from someone.just be +ve and give me 500$ when you are successfull.

Answer 2

There are a lot of membrane like layers in human brain called concious mind, unconcious, sub-concious and so on - to innumerable. Confidence is also defined differently like every mental characteristics. Jesus told ' your confidence or belief would protect you' (or else). First - Confidence is NOT expectation of something. Second - Confidence is NOT reliability on something. Third - (please fill up and reach a conclusion as to 'WHAT IS NOT'. Then the real confidence would shine in our mind. It would take a bible for me to explain to a human mind which can not feel a 1000s or more years memory by seeing things from others viewpoints. In ONE WORD - Confidence is that everything is being done by God and He would do good at all times. How can I explain more if 'confidence is taken as materialistic by meaning'.

Answer 3

Practice talking about something in front of a mirror. Talk about some favorite thing you like to do as if you are telling the other "you" all about it. Give yourself an honest to goodness smile. Learn to love yourself.

Keep away from thinking any negative thought.

Keep doing that and the confidence you've shown in the mirror will come through in other situations .

Practice Practice Practice

Answer 4

Well I sort of understand where you are coming from about confusion. I always felt the same way and I used to be extremely introverted (not shy just lacking interest and confidence to be around others). The hard part was from adolesence and it got worse than ever as a young adult when I was suddenly forced to make adult decisions.

To sum it all up, my parents were divorced when I was going through adolesence and I was forced to live in an abusive environment with my single mother up until I had the chance to escape and move away (senior year of high school). It was horrible. She was truly destructive to me and at that time my father would not let me live with him because he felt pity for my mother and didn't realize how bad the abuse was until several years later.

Anyhow not trying to get off track just wanted to explain some of the reasons that I had this problem. She managed to torture me emotionally for so long that it spiraled out of control when I was in my early 20's. I had such severe depression and felt so poorly about myself that I was admitted into a hospital several times and my last stay was for half of a year. But somehow through all of that I finally realized that I was allowing someone else to control how I felt about me and that couldn't be right!

I took counseling but the best solution to my problem was taking the step to cut my abusive mother out of my life. I didn't give her any space to contact me and after some time I started making friends with new people. I got my first little apartment. I also got to know myself more and discovered that I was not such a bad person. In the end I met my husband and I never thought I was capable of being loved or sharing a sucessful marriage. I have also been blessed in the past two years with becoming a mother to a baby girl (and am expecting another). I never thought I was good enough to be someone's mommy. But I am and I am truly a very brave person to have been where I was and to have overcome it.

As far as confusion is concerned, I would say that low self esteem can dull your awareness of the way things truly are. So the best thing to cure this would be to first figure out ways to understand and love yourself better. Face something that you are afraid of, help someone who is worse off than you, become active in some hobbies. This will help you to overcome it. But also paying attention to the events unfolding around you are a good way to abate your confusion. Best of luck and remember that there is no other person like you in this world. God made you and fashioned you to utilize your talents and blessings. And you are responsible to love yourself and to love the world around you because who knows, maybe one day you will be someone's mother or father or have a greater mission in life than you ever imagined possible. Good luck and may God bless you with more hope and courage to reach your dreams.

Answer 5

I used to have the same problem you are having right now until one day I woke up and decided not to care. I decided that what I needed to do was believe in me no matter what. If I know I am right then I am right and if not then to heck with it at least I tried. What you need to do is learn to love yourself enough to know and believe you can do it. Forget what others feel, forget what your scary mind tells you, just do it after you are done for the first time you will feel a sudden rush all over your body. It will feel weird at first but then you will feel realized and complete. Believe in yourself you are the best, you deserve the best and I know you have the right answer. We believe in YOU now is your turn!

Answer 6

believe in god
believe in yourself
believe in ur past record
believe in positive thinking
believe in ur strength

don;t believe in anyother thing.
i wanna say u one thing
plz note it down in ur diary.listen

khudh se jyada bharosa kisi aur par mat karna,
khudh se jyada bharosa kisi aur pe mat karna,
kyun k
andhere mein tou parchai bhi sath chorr jati hai

Answer 7

Its very easy my dear friend.
You do one thing...
First of all you leave to ashemed of.
You please never care of others. You do what you like.
All are person, no one is god on earth.
Just think of your defined target and go for it without carrying for others.

Answer 8

to think confidently act confidently

Answer 9

>faith in yourself is not dependent on others praise and premise.
remind yourself often

Answer 10

my suggestion would be that u need love and affection firmly from some one.