no one looks for personality any more...... tell me the truth do looks matter http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Li3mg1GrKe0&mode=related&search=
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-Z7UC94qwc&mode=related&search=
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RADYaTvTGts&mode=related&search=
please take the time to watch these videos.....
2006-11-19 16:48:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Unfortunately people do tend to make the physical exterior of a person the focal point. This is why true love is close to becoming extincted, this is why relationships don't last, also this is why we as humans have lost sight of how love appears and appeals to the heart, soul, and mind. But instead the "looks" and financial status of a person becomes our love...and we fall in lust with that. If people were to look beyond a persons outer shell and see the beauty inside of a person then we would all indulge in the soul and mind of a person rather then lust over their physical exterior. If this were the way things were, then I believe we would all have met our soul mates, our other half, our partner for the intimate love dance. Because we would not see "looks" over the "mind". Were all spirits and souls with thoughts and personality's and and our appearance and beauty are temporary because looks get old real fast, but love...true love never ever gets old. And that only happens when we take the time to actually massage someones mind and feel their soul connected to yours and blossom as only love will. Temporary acts are for the time being, but our future is our true galore.
Love live life
-Candy
2006-11-19 17:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't watch your videos but I suspect random dumb and dumber people go for looks over substance, but I, and I assume many others, who want something more than a dance and a screw, look a little deeper before ruling someone out. But even if everyone hates the way you look and doesn't take the time to "get to know you" you shouldn't take it personally. Instead you should concentrate on loving yourself and following your passions and interests to the fullest. If you're not doing that, then maybe it isn't just your looks and personality, but that you're not ready for a relationship.
2006-11-20 01:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't put on smart, funny, good listener, sweet, charming, or kind. They are not like shirts, that you can put on and everyone sees. Yeah everyone judges you on your looks, I don't care what anyone says, they still do it! Yes looks matter, but your personality is equally or more important. It's just that know one can see your personality at first glance. It only takes a few minutes to know the outside of someone, but it takes a lifetime to know the inside! Everyone is beautiful in there own way!
Oh and those girls from the videos have nothing, absolutely nothing, to be ashamed of!
2006-11-20 01:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by chromecranium 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people might like a personality that likes to sit in the car for 3 hours everyday waiting in the fast food drive. But you can see that personality in thier looks. Some people like a personality that takes them to the treadmill for an hour a day. and you can see that personality in thier looks. Looks is just an easier way of judgeing personality. If a person cares about them selves you can see it in thier looks. Hiding behind a mask or cartoon character on- line, a person can have any personality they wish to convey.
2006-11-20 01:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its true. Its kind of why most schools have 'clickes' (not sure how to spell, watch High School Musical)
People just judge each other on looks a lot.
2006-11-20 00:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Love. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks are what attracts the person and the personality is the real deciding factor. ii mean come on. you`re not going to date some guy or girl just because they`re good looking. if their personality sucks then you ditch them.
2006-11-20 01:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but most people do look at looks b4 personality anymore.
2006-11-20 00:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by coolkidalex2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...but personality wins out. And if they miss a great personality then it's their loss.
2006-11-20 00:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because we are all human. looking is makes us decide if people look / friendly /attractive / safe or intelligent. so yes
2006-11-20 01:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by janelle p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes looks matter
2006-11-20 02:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋