I knew this guy for 3 months, he's perfect for me. we've been dating for 2 months and known each other for 1. for those 2 first months he told me he was in town for family. so we have a long-distance relation ship. we talk everyday and never run out of things. hes 7 years older, i dont know how to tell my parents, his parents know about me (im in college and he works)
so anything the big problem is, he has a great job, short work hours and double pay, but he wants to start over his work where i live and move in with me. i cant move in with him cause im still in school and dont have a place to live (cant live with him cause he stays with his parents) i do badly want to see him and i really wouldnt mind, but it also scares me cause he says he wants to engaged to me.
2006-11-19 16:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i really couldn't care less about anything else!
2006-11-19 16:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First slow down. If you are not sure about something this big then you shouldn't do it. Moving in with someone is a big step and you are in college with alot on your plate all ready. If he wants to relocate near you great then you can get to know him better but I wouldn't move in with him for at least one year. And the getting engaged. Think your parents don't even know about him, Don't you think your skipping a few steps here. Who pays for your education because if it's your parents then they have a right to know about a guy you may or may not move in with. I would worry about my education and getting to know him more first. Also meeting your parents.
2006-11-19 16:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by MereBear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SLOW down. Best thing to do is take it one step at a time. First of all I wouldn't considering getting engaged until after about 6 months. Next don't move in with each other before you get married, it will just ruin things. Take some time to get to know him before you rush into anything and have patience. Remember Love is Patient, If he won't wait and continues to rush then warn him and if he continues to persist...drop him.
2006-11-19 16:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Phoenix 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get engaged but don't move in with him till you finish college, that will give you enough time to think about if this person is the man that you want to spend the rest of your life with. Give this some time or you'll end up with a man who's slept with you but doesn't want to marry you...the story of 95% of the female population in USA.
2006-11-19 16:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love each other, express your feelings to him and talk about it. My opinion...get engaged with the understanding that no other plans will be made until you graduate. Then you have more time to think. If you're so scared you realize you don't want to be with him, break it off now.
2006-11-19 16:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Alishia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because you like how things are going now doesnt mean you have to rush into things. some people like to rush into things others dont.....if you have any bad feelings about it dont do it. tell him your not ready for that kinda change yet. why cant he move to town but get his own place? whatever you do make sure you keep focusing on you and school....if its meant to be he will understand and stick around
2006-11-19 16:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Brooklyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's no problem at all, all you have to do is to strive harder in school to get a degree and someday got also a job
2006-11-19 16:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by cramp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds a little strange
2006-11-19 17:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Valerena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a question somewhere in all of that?
2006-11-19 16:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by Thumper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what feels right
2006-11-19 16:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by aime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋