2006-11-19 16:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Here is some tips I have found for you... It isn't the fact of making her feel more sexy, but to show it in the little things you do around her or not around her that counts, simple things like calling her out of the blue to tell her how much you love her, or hold her hand in public.
Good luck
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Steps
1. Always always always do what they ask you, no matter how ridiculous. The simplest little things can make her happy.
2. Its not a good idea to look at other girls, especially when shes around. Not only will she be unhappy with you, but you probably wont be getting much feedback from her for a while.
1. When she wants to hold your hand, do it. Don't let other things stop you from doing that, especially your friends. This happened to me a lot. Ignore everything else. If your friends say anything about it, they are either jealous or they aren't your friends.
2. I found out very very quickly that kisses don't have to be on the lips to prove you love her. They can go anywhere. Examples: cheek, forehead, hand, in sexy places like her neck, etc.
3. Hugs make her feel safe and loved kind of like a kiss would. Always hug and kiss her at the end of the day, or at the end of a date. Always!
4. Always say "I love you" but only if you mean it completely. The worst thing to do is to say you love her just so she will quiet up.
5. Gifts! The best gifts come from the heart and have meaning to her. Don't just go to the store, see something you think is cool, and get it for her. Also, you can make things, which is what I usually did. Teddy bears, cards (with a gift), little homemade casting resin hearts, pictures of you together, anything that comes from the heart.
6. Besides Gifts give her something that belongs to you. Highly recommended is one of your sweat shirts, and if you have one a stuffed animal is even better.
7. Be honest!! It's very bad to lie to your girl. Not only will you know (and if you love her enough you will feel guilty) but if she finds out, all hell will break lose. Little white lies are closer to the edge than usual because she likes to know everything.
8. Find a song you both like and make it "your song". You don't have to look for one, but if you both hear a song that represents you, or you both particularly like, make it yours.
9. Stay close to her when your with her. Don't walk too far away, in fact, you should hold her hand or put your arm around her.
10. You should pay for everything you can. Even if you have to do the unimaginable, ask your parents for money. They will usually understand, unless you have a job.
11. Don't ask too much from her. She doesn't want to be running all over for you. That's what you do for her.
12. Be with her as much as possible, and do what ever it takes to do this. It lets her know you care for her.
13. Know everything about her. If she asks you to get her some candy, your question to her should be only "how much?" not "what kind?"
14. Adding to the above, Chocolate. Most girls LOVE chocolate, especially when they are feeling down.
15. When shes sick, go to her. Bring a can of soup, a movie, and a big warm blanket and be with her. Don't just drop it off and leave. Make the soup, pop in the movie, and curl up with her under the blanket.
16. Let her fall asleep in her arms, and(try to) be there when she wakes up.
17. Don't push her to do anything she doesn't want to do. This makes her feel uncomfortable.
18. Go out. Movies, dinner, shopping even if need be. Just remember, don't complain. If she wants to go shopping, just do it. It won't kill you.
19. Tell her shes beautiful!!! "Hot" or "sexy" is not the same as beautiful. This is in the top five most importing things to say to her along with "I love you", which is number one.
20. If you love her, let everyone know. Don't be shy. Literally scream it to the world.
21. Bragging about her. If she finds out you brag about her, your about to be loved to death. Even better if someone else tells her you do it, not you yourself. This makes her feel so wonderful and wanted.
22. Girls have this thing, where they all think they are fat, which is usually not true, but when she says "I'm fat." you never ever agree with her. Argue it. Don't fight about it, but let her know you don't think she is fat.
23. "Sorry" is the first step to solving a problem. It will not solve the problem alone, you need to talk to solve it.
24. Don't ever ever ever ever slap, smack, hit, punch, kick, push, etc. her. Ever. If you do anything to physically hurt her and its not on accident, you don't deserve her and you need professional help.
25. Like (or to to like) her friends. You don't have to have close relationships with them, just like them.
26. Stick up for her- Always! Always do this. Don't let people talk bad about her.
27. Treat her like royalty. You don't have to buy her gold and diamonds to do this. Just giver her little things, physically or not, compliments are wonderful
28. Don't rule the relationship. Both of you should have equal "power". If she wants a little more than you, let her have it anyway.
2006-11-19 16:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her, tell her that you need her, compliment her on what she's wearing, what she does for you, tell her she's sexy, buy her some sexy clothes to put on for you, make passionate, slow love to her, but first lead her to the room with rose pedals on the floor and a note with the clothes you bought her to put that says something like "Put these on my sexy baby 'cause you're going to need them". Something along that line should work.
2006-11-20 02:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Victoria's Secret and pick out something you'd love to see her in. And tell her that when you give it to her. Set the mood in the room with candles and music etc. When she puts on the lingerie, make sure to tell her how sexy she looks and how you'd love to see her wearing that more often. You'd like to imagine ...etc Couldn't hurt!
2006-11-20 00:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her, romance her. Do everything with the sincere desire to make her happy, not to get something from her. Gals notice the change of motive real quick.
2006-11-20 00:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gave her strawberry with chocolates...she'll know u like her bcoz u think she's sexy 2 u
2006-11-20 00:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥BlackDahlia♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold her waist, message her shoulders, and compliment her shoes.
2006-11-20 00:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Vae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touch her slowly and softly. Tell her.
2006-11-20 00:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute things leave flowers and candy
2006-11-20 00:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by xshinylishuss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i love u and sweet things, nothing raunchy!
2006-11-20 00:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Keko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depoends i think you should asj her to have sex with you.
2006-11-20 00:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by allison_cardwell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋