Oh wow. I'm in this semi big mess and I don't know what to do. Basically, I really really REALLY like this girl. She has a girlfriend, but I'm not sure how serious they are, and they just started dating. I'm not sure how the girl feels about me, but I always think about her. She told me that when she kisses me, she like, gets lost. It's a jumbled mess, but that's just basically the question. Do I tell her how I feel? She has a girlfriend, I'm not sure how she will react, and i don't know what her feelings are for me. I want to let her know what I'm feeling, and I want to be everything for her. ahhhhhh. okay, so yeah, do I tell her? This girl is unbelievably amazing.
2006-11-19 15:56:50 · 6 answers · asked by Veronica 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yeah, there are other girls out there...but I reeeeally like this one. Maybe I just need to get out more, but I think that if I don't say anything, it will always be in the abck of my mind.
2006-11-19 16:04:41 · update #1
i guess it can't hurt to tell her. but then again, i would probably just "not get involved" with someone who already has a girlfriend.-- did it a too many times and guess what?-- it "bit me in the butt" (all of em) so to speak. learned my damn lesson. ;)
lot's of girls out there.-- yes amazing ones too. pick one who is not involved. =) life will be easier.
2006-11-19 16:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how you feel about her. She just started dating this other girl, right? Married couples even break up, even after so many years of marriage. Besides, the girl told you that she feel lost when she kisses you. This is quite a possibility that she feels something for you as well. You should just get up and tell her how you feel. Chances are, she's into you as well. Best of luck!
2006-11-19 16:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her! If she is kissing you she cant possibly be that into the other girl. But you need to be ready to accept that she might not like you the same way. Plus the fact the she's not really leaving the other girl to date you only should be a heads up. It seems to me that you are really attracted to her and that's blinding you a little. It seems to me like this girl is playing the field. So if you like her as much as you say you do realize that you might be putting your heart out there. Take it easy.
2006-11-19 16:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by onelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to communicate with her..tell her how you feel....If she just started dating this girl it cant be too serious especially if she has been kissing you..Go ahead and talk to her..She may have a change of heart and want you instead...
Good Luck!
2006-11-19 16:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She kissed you? She must not be that serious about the guy. Tell her how you feel. The absolute worst she can say is, "I'm sorry, but I'm not interestd." The hard part is actually meeting someone. You already know her. Just tell her!
2006-11-19 16:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your right if you don't approach & talk to her you will always wonder "what if?..." Invirw her out to lunch, coffee...whatever...sit someplace quiet and tell her your feelings, what her kisses & words meant to you, ,,and you need her to help you sort this all out, and how does she really feel...good luck honey!
2006-11-19 17:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋