Ok... long story short
I have alot of problems.. family.. social... you name it.. I have a teacher I talk to with about my problems because I trust him and he agreed to lend an ear... I'm a girl and obviously he is a guy...
I've heard of teachers getting sued and junk for with holding information... and/or being accused of sexual harrasment to the student.. apparantly the last thing I want to happen is him getting sued...
should I stop dropping my problems on this poor guy? should i just leave him alone so there's no risk of anything bad happening?.. he's said he doesnt mind talking to me but I feel guitly... he's the only adult I trust and listen to anymore... besides being pretty weird (which i know it is) is this a bad relation ship.. and should I stop?
2006-11-19 15:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by egf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess I feel kinda guitly... because some of my friends think I have a crush on him or something... I dont know why it'd make me feel guitly but .. oh well
2006-11-19 16:01:20 · update #1
as long as you don't have a physical relationship with this person and you realize he is obligated by law to turn you in if you tell him of certain things that may be going on in your life. (abuse or something along those lines) you should be fine. keep it teacher and student. it is ok for him to be a mentor and a rock for you.
2006-11-19 15:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not think at this point it is a problem but to be safe you should ask him to share this with the school counselor and/or principal while still keeping it from anyone else. A teacher can be a good person to talk to but it has to be handled the proper way so please ask him to share this with another authority figure so that nothing will be misread by someone else. Just tell your teacher your concerns and your teacher should know what to do, if they have your best interests at heart.
2006-11-19 15:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing anything wrong. If you were going to a male shrink would you feel guilty then? The only way something bad would happen in this situation is if you said things to give others the wrong impression. If he is the only person you trust to talk to then continue to do that, innocently.
2006-11-19 15:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is this form of shaggy dog tale. in the experience that your bf needs a clean civic then tell him to purchase it himself. the reality the the daddy bought him a automobile interior the 1st place substitute into beneficiant. maximum childrens are actually not so fortunate. And extremely than being a spoiled brat you may only be happy he's your bf. except your thought of bf is one having a automobile. What his father does together with his money is his business enterprise. only be grateful your bf gets a some share. And by utilising the way, in the experience that your bf is using then he's sufficiently old to instruct accountability and get a job and purchase his very own automobile. and what's this have been given to do with you besides.
2016-11-25 20:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a smart and thoughtful girl to be concerned for your teacher ...as long as you are unloading on him in full public view in a public place and he is a willing participant, I say take full advantage of it. It may be God sent someone to help you!Just beware when you are vulnerable of wolves in sheeps clothing. Sometimes they will listen to you and be so wonderful and great-its part of how predators operate. Know the difference and act accordingly.
2006-11-19 15:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as there is no sexual contact there is no reason why you or him should get into trouble its good ta have a teacher that you can talk to about anything and that you can trust you dont find teachers like that anymore i wish there was more teacher like that
2006-11-19 16:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is your counselor its all good-if not talk to your counselor and find out what is the best thing to do-in Jesus amazing grace-John chapter 3-that saved a wretch like me.
2006-11-19 15:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by ben 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your feeling any sexual tension between the two of you than you should stop talking to him, and also if your feeling guilty about talking to him than maybe your doing more than just talking. i mean how can you feel guilty for just talking. is that all that's going on
2006-11-19 15:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by exclusive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is good that your teacher is trying to help you but make sure you trust him. you are venerable right now
2006-11-19 15:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by greeneyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋