Cheating on my girlfriend?

Question

I felt sort of unappreciated by my girlfriend like I always call her and she just ignores me sometimes. She hits on a lot of other guys and i told her it bothers me and she just keeps doing it. So everyday for the past 4 weeks I've been sleeping with a girl on her cheerleading team (The only better looking girl than her!) and I really enjoyed it. We have a lot of sex and the other girl let's me do whatever I want to her. I care about my girlfriend and I still want to make the relationship work but the girl I've been cheating with told me not to say anything because she has a boyfriend too. Should I tell my girlfriend or just keep doing what I am doing?

p.s. I feel really bad about cheating but me and the other girl have a certain connection too.

Answer 1

dump your gf and get with the new girl.. there is no way your gf will take you back after you tell her and dont lie bc if you piss off the girl on the side she could just rat you out.

cheating is never the right thing!

Answer 2

Cheating and being dishonest is definitely not the way to get your girlfriend's attention if you really want the relationship to last. If you cared about her you would have talked things out with her and be straightforward. However there are times that although someone feels for another, their own needs get in the way of there concern for the partners feelings and though its not a good thing it can happen to good people. Also, if you don't feel bad about being with someone else then obviously it is time you need to move on and stop wasting your girlfriends time.

It seems as if you should just call it quits with her or tell her that you dont feel comfortable with the relationship if the commitment doesn't go up a notch. (This requires that you be faithful too and tell her what has been going on)

if she really wants to stay with you and cares for you then she will stop. and in return if you truly feel that way for her once she is committed to you then things may work out.

If you want to do the right thing you need to tell your girlfriend what has been going on. Things might not work out in the end however, but she would find out eventually either way. If you care how she feels then dont let her get hurt over time.

the girl your cheating on your girlfriend with sounds like a brainless slut... "she'll let you do anything".. I have the feeling that she has someting against your girlfriend... possibly even jealousy and the need to enforce that shes the "alpha female". She also obviously doesnt care about her boyfriend and probably is more concerned with looking bad for cheating and being a stupid slut than hurting his feelings.

Answer 3

NO! DON'T TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND.

No matter how guilty you feel, she doesn't need to know. Telling her won't take your feelings of guilt away. What you did is wrong but don't have her go through a painful situation if you can help it. Besides there's another person in the picture.

AND DON'T KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING.

You need to make a decision here. It's either your girlfriend or being able to have sex with the other girl.

If you ask me, you're not satified with your relationship. Sex is never just sex, you're probably lacking something that your girlfriend is not giving you, on an emotional level.

Answer 4

You are the type of person that gives guys a bad name. That is garbage that you say you care about your girlfriend otherwise you wouldn't be repetively cheating. Hopefully evryone finds out what is going on and you and the girl your cheating with end up alone. Or better yet, with each other, so that you can both spend all your time wondering what the other is doing. Time to grow up.

Answer 5

If you dump your girl friend, your girl on the side will cheat on you. This is how diseases get past. Keep this in mind. There are always more people involved than just the two or in this case three of you.

The only way to make piece with yourself for cheating is to come clean and tell her.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

you obviously are not ready for a real relationship. Lying and cheating NEVER ends in a good relationship..also you are not the only one to pull off a move like this. She just might be with your cheerleaders boyfriend

Answer 8

wow! TMI, You definitely shouldn't keep doing what your doing, that's horrible! what you need to do is make a choice. If you decide to stay with your girlfriend you should really tell her what you did and see if she even wants to stay with you. If you choose the other cheerleader (and your going to leave your current girlfriend) then you may want to spare the hurt feelings and not tell her you were cheating on her

Answer 9

Don't be stupid. No matter what your girlfriend did, she doesn't deserve this behaviour from you. The best thing for you to do, instead of sleeping with both girls is to just stick to one...make your choice and stick to it. How would you feel if you found out that your girlfriend was sleeping with another man, like you're sleeping with another girl?! This pattern of behaviour will affect your adult relationships too, so I suggest that you improve yourself and don't turn into another 'loser' boyfriend.

Answer 10

Be honest with her they once a cheater always a cheater if you have any type of respect for yourself be honest and then take it from their talk out the problems that you are having with her. And the other girl she has a boyfriend whatever goes on in the dark will eventually come into the light. Be honest with yourself.