When my partner was cheating on me she became very distant, argued alot with me and if we went out with friends or for work she would basically ignore me. She came late home from work and never wanted to talk, she also didn't like spending much time with me alone. I hope that your wife is not cheating, it is a very devastating experience. Good luck
2006-11-19 15:55:04
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answered by Shar 2
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i feel for you, if she is cheating.!
does she leave the house and stay gone for a while, is she still taking care of you like she has been, does she want to make love with you. does she shower more often then ones a day.
or maybe you are just feeling alittle insecure,
or maybe she is going threw some changes in life.
you really need to sit and talk, ask her if there is someone else.
maybe she will tell you if she is.
but maybe there are other things going on. but she is your wife, and she is supose to be your best friend. and best friends can talk about anything.
just tell her if she is cheating that she should tell you, because if she lies to you. the lies and sneaking around will hurt more than the truth. GOOD LUCK. LET ME KNOW HOW THINGS GO.
2006-11-19 15:53:17
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answered by tabatha 1
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How can you tell? It depends how smart your girl is and what kind of affair she's having. I would think that a no strings attached - physical relations only type of relationship would be easier to hide than someone she is emotionally falling for. The physical affair may be a once a month type of thing that doesn't look out of the ordinary . . . but if it's more than that you'll notice her going out more than usual for things that she usually does less often. If it's an emotional affair . . . it's easier to lose track of your trail when you're falling in love . . . so the signs should get bolder and bolder if she sticks with him for a while.
2006-11-19 20:06:23
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answered by Jen RN 2
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every thing was going good with me and my wife but now she starts acting differently with me things she used to do all that just cut down she used to call me and tell me that she love me and used to let me no when she is leaving work and let me no when she is home from work all that stop I used to get sex some 2-3 times a week now sometime not even one am getting it now and I always have to be the one to make that move to have sex with her I always wall her tell her that I love hear and try to do things to make her happy now in the night time she used to hold me when we sleep now she stop and she telling that everything is ok and she not doing anything but in side of me I think something is going ok
2014-10-13 09:56:46
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answered by spice 1
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Just go on as normal.One day when she walks in and you think she has been cheating flirt with her...Do not give her a chance to shower and go down on her...This should give you the evidence you were looking for..... Check her undies while you down there too...
2006-11-19 15:45:12
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answered by ray b 3
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he starts acting differently, wears newer makeup lipstick clothes and all. I would not ask her till you have more evidence, watch her she is bound to slip up in what she says or goes, also is she going to new places be it bowling with the girls and all, that she has never went or done before. good luck.
2006-11-19 15:48:09
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answered by sidekick 6
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is she going into other rooms to speak on the phone. does she hide the phone bill from you. does she visit web sites that are out of hte orndinary? does she fail to look you in the eyes when you tell her you love her. is she still willing to make love to you?
hope this helps
2006-11-19 15:49:31
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answered by beckdawgydawg 4
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dude, there is this product out, i cant remember what its called, but its kinda like a pregnancy test that can test for semen on undies. try googleing it. i hope she's not man, good luck. :-)
2006-11-19 15:41:35
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answered by xsehaittx 2
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ASK her. Maybe she'd tell you. Maybe she wouldnt. But you probably could tell by her reaction don't you think??
2006-11-19 15:43:09
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answered by Golden Hair 3
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a change in her attitude , going out more , not letting you have sex with her when she's comes home after being out
2006-11-19 15:45:13
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answered by Bob 2
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