i'm not sure where i want to be married. i want a big ceremony and whatnot..i DON'T want it at a courthouse or city hall. i just want some ideas of where i could have mine when it happens. me and my guy both don't believe in god.. and again, i'm just getting some ideas. my whole family is religous, i'm not sure about his, but yeah, i really don't know... heh.
2006-11-19 15:34:18 · 17 answers · asked by twiztidjuggalette_17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
also, who did you have there? did you have a priest for your family, or someone else?
i've talked about this before with my guy, but i'm curious on what others have done.
2006-11-19 15:38:21 · update #1
i'm not saying i'm ready for it. i don't want it for a while. i'm just curious.
2006-11-19 15:39:35 · update #2
don't call me childish. just because i'm curious on where to get married, DOES NOT make me childish. I was curious on where other people got married, like.. how theirs was, i didn't need big lists, but that's okay anyway. but i still don't understand how asking a question makes me childish. not knowing where to get married, does not give anyone info on how you are, what your personality is or anything. i'm not getting mad, but i just asked a simple question, and it came to the whole 'you're childish and not ready' i know i'm not ready, but just because i'm not ready, doesn't mean i can't try to start planning it out now and get some ideas.
2006-11-19 15:50:09 · update #3
A temple
2006-11-19 15:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of places that cater weddings that are more on a civil level rather than spiritual. They are nice places that can have a theme or just a general wedding feel, depending on what you want. Contact the local Chamber of Commerce and they can help you get in touch with the proper event planner and coordinate a ceremony that fits your needs. They can even hire someone to officiate the ceremony. GL
2006-11-19 23:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married on a ship (boat), at the beach, near the ocean, in a big outdoor field, any beautiful setting would do. There are all kinds of people who can marry you that have nothing to do with the church or government. Try it at sunset, outside that is so beautiful. Congrats on the Nups.
2006-11-19 23:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by lilyvix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is anything but childish! It shows that you are in a mature relationship that could develop into a marriage, and it's cool that you are thinking ahead! My husband and I got married at an awesome historic hotel on the coast of SC. We wrote our own vows with no mention of god. The most important advice I can give is do what you both want to do -- do whatever is meaningful to you. Good luck! :-)
2006-11-20 00:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mandie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
I myself am not very religious either, I got married about 1 year ago and it was not in a church. I got married at a very nice hotel. I had my wedding and the reception at the same place and it was great. I had a Reverend marry us. The ceremony was very simple, but nice. My whole family is also religious, they enjoyed our wedding.
2006-11-20 00:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by wendee b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given your beliefs, I would suggest either marrying in a non-denominational church (good for the big ceremony that you desire), or if you downsize the ceremony, Something outdoors might be nice. Maybe at a quiet park or beach setting.
2006-11-20 00:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have somewhere nearby such as a museum? Nice hotels will book weddings. Parks, gardens, banquet halls, ranches, somewhere historical. Look up historical hotspots in your area or anywhere that you would throw a party...ie civic center or something. Good luck!
2006-11-19 23:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Amber O. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in God but didn't marry in a church. We got married at the Registrar of Marriage.
2006-11-20 06:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he honors you to respect you-then have a respectable wedding in a respectable place-which would be most anywhere you both like-church is boring till you come to know Jesus personally
if he is taking you to bed rejecting Jesus and getting you both labled-then think of the bible who says "In marriage the bed is undefiled" Hebrews 13 -so if Jesus is rejected then try and be appropriate-maybe at a cat house where guys at least pay for what they get-I was bad too once but I repented and let Jesus forgive my sins and become my savior and best friend-in his amazing grace that saved a wretch like me.
2006-11-19 23:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by ben 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In our backyard. We did have a minister, though, but he was an old friend who let us write the ceremony.
2006-11-19 23:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋