Ok, My best friend in the world, is in love with this boy, Josh. And me and him are good friends. Well their constantly having relationship problems cause she knows that he's like inlove with me. Bad part is... im inlove with him too! I feel like im ******* everything up for her, wtf, the boy she loves loves me and i love him but we CANT NO MATTER WHAT go out. And she doesnt know i like him like this at all! WTF! what do i do, i feel like back stabbing ***** for likeing him. I love her so much so i cant loose her but i cant loose him either. Help
2006-11-19 15:33:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Btw i have not done a THING with this boy and i went out with him once before my friend and him started dating so he's one of my ex's but we're still good friends. He has told me she doesnt trust him at all, and thats a prob. I have done EVERYTHING to get them back together each time they break up. And i have NEVER talked **** about her behind her back thank you!
2006-11-19 15:51:32 · update #1
Well remember, ur friend will always be there for u but guys come and go. If u end up w/him and eventually "u will" break up- odds are. Then what? u don't have him and ur best friend has found another. Let me tell u, I had a very best friend in high sch. and we were inseperable 1 day another friend of mine says;tell her or I will! Sooooo.. my frined say's I F*****-John (my bf) I was heart broken! she almost laughed. She was my best friend!? what the hell? but now he ended up being a loser and she ended up w/3 kids to 3 diff guys and she's w/none. I am married 16 yrs w/2 kids and happy. I know u didn't need to hear my life story but u got it anyway. Chose ur friend! plenty of guys will come along later. Don't b a friend like mine was to me.
2006-11-19 15:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, let me start by saying this. When I was in junior high, I had a best friend. I am 38 now and still have the best friend. On the other hand, I also had a girlfriend in junior high, she didn't last til the end of the year and had countless other girlfriends through the years until I met my future wife. Conclusion? Best friens last longer than girlfriends or boyfriends 99% of the time.
2006-11-19 23:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by roganddeb2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you have to make a choice between the guy you like and your best friend. And no i wouldn't consider you a back stabber for liking the same guy she does, just as long as your not trying to steel him from her, talk sh** behind her back, well maybe you should try and talk to her about it...Hopefully she'll understand, if not if she's really your friend then over time she'll forgive you.
2006-11-19 23:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by gayle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you AND her, what makes you think that he wouldn't like you and some other girl eventually??? That's how it always is!! Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever!!!
You have to decide on your own who you feel is more important and ditch the other. Then again, if you really feel THAT bad, you'll stay away from BOTH of them!! You don't deserve either of them. Sorry-but this is just plain wrong.
2006-11-19 23:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy wont last. Its not like either of you will be marrying him. At your age boys will come and go but friendships are hard to find. Is it worth losing a good friendship forever over? When this boy is out of both your lives you will regret it if you mess things up.
2006-11-19 23:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna have to decide which one you value more. the boy or your friend. and i would hope that all your morals say the friend, or you really are superficial. 1. don't do anything with the guy 2. tell your friend 3. move on. you and this guy should never have a fling or a relationship when they break up. you and your friend need to realize that any guy who would do that to his GF is NOT WORTH IT
2006-11-19 23:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself a break. if you havent done anything than you are not a back stabber.
but you do need to pick. which realationship do you think will last longer? maybe they wont last. choose, you cant have both
or be honest. if she is truley your friend and you told her how things are, that you love each other, maybe she will understand.
only in a perfect world. right?
2006-11-19 23:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by imboard2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would lose the "I'm so freakin great" attitude and let the two of them alone. If you were a real friend, back off, give them time. Find yourself a man, on your own, it's pretty bad when you can't do any better than your girlfriend's man! Loser!
2006-11-19 23:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and let the chips fall where they may. Keeping it from her will only lead to her long term mistrust in you because she is going to find out anyway.
2006-11-19 23:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG DAT HAPPENED 2 ME 2 AND MY FRIEND GOT MAD BUT SHE UNDERSTOOD CUZ I EXPLAINED EVERYTHING TO HER AND WE R STILL FRIENDS AND ME AND HIM WAS THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO THE 3 OF US AND WE WERE ALL HAPPY ESPECIALLY ME AND HIM SO I THINK U SHOULD TALK TO HER AND TELL HER WHAT U R THINKIN ABOUT DOING TALK 2 HIM ABOUT HOW SHE FEEL ABOUT HIM AND ASK HIM WHAT HE THINK WOULD BE BEST FOR ALL OF YALL AND THEN GO AND BE WIT HIM AND BE HAPPY SHE'LL UNDERSTAND!:)
2006-11-19 23:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by TAVIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋