How do you get a girl whom you have been madly been in love for a long time but too afraid to take any action?
Everyday i think of her yet i am afraid.
I am ok around others girl, i chat and i laugh.
But around her, im quiet and once i talk, i always talk about stupid things.
What can i do?
-I was thinking of asking her to the grad prom at June next year since im planning to rent a limo.
PS any advices from personal experience will be excellent.
2006-11-19 15:14:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This girl i like..
She have really good social skills
hang with other guys all the time
let them carry her on their back...
Im really a shy person..
2006-11-19 15:17:50 · update #1
It's going to be difficult because you adored her from afar for along time. Talk about other things first. Then bring up a movie or going out to eat on the weekend. From there you'll know if she's interested. The sooner you do it the better and you'll know where you stand.
2006-11-19 15:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very good question. From my personal expierence jusy give it some time. Let her know that you are interested in her. Don't make it to obvious but enough that she will know that you like her. By all means ask her to the prom. That is a start to break the ice. If she happens to say no then don't get bummed out. It just means that she is not the girl for you. Try to get her attention by doing something nice for her. Just take it slow and make slow moves. Don't jump in to quick cause you may get knocked down. Just be prepared for a let down if she is in anyway not interested. Good Luck in the future.
2006-11-19 15:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know ive heard about this story once. your deeply in love with her right? tell her what you feel, if your still afraid try to sit on a place then think about the things that she do when she is with you or with other guys. this girl is funny right? if you have a chance to talk to her dont be like shaking coz that's gonna be obvious for her. try giving her first a compliment, then ask if how is she doing, try telling her some natural things that make her laugh, then tell her some things that she can find something on your thoughts. try to tell her stories from your childhood,just relax talking to her, if you cant look at her eyes try glazing at her when she's in deep thought about your story. just tell her about what you felt for, maybe if you didn't you'll just wake up some day shes not around, its never too late to tell her, im sure she'll understand. don't hurt her feelings, she's very special..
2006-11-19 16:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Janna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a really sweet boy.
try ask her out, you wont lose anything by trying...if you just sit there and do nothing you wont gain anything at all. If you ask her and if she says no..then fine..at least you tried and there will be nothing to regret about.
Dont try so hard to impress her, just be yourself. Remember that people are more attractive when they feel confident and confortable with theirselves. Its easy to say...but try..dont let this chance to scape only because youre shy. You have nothing to lose.
Good luck!!!!
2006-11-19 15:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by je t'aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overcome your fear and just talk to her as if she was just one of your friends.
2006-11-19 16:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE YOUR SELF AND GO UP TO HER.
2006-11-19 15:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... you have to take action...
2006-11-19 15:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋