2006-11-19 15:13:16 · 24 answers · asked by atantatlantis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel for you. That has to be a very unpleasant thing he is doing to cause you to be upset.
A lot of marriages have been destroyed because of the Internet and a lot of disgruntled mates. The best thing to do is let him know how you feel and tell him to stop. If he still does it, there is nothing for you to do except to accept it or leave him. It is a form of cheating... No matter how Innocent he claims, girls are girls and that means he is interested in someone other than you. That's cheating!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-19 15:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mary D 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he can either keep looking and chatting or he can keep you...if he picks you get "be safe online" installed in the computer and move it into a high traffic area of the house and get into counseling. If he chooses the pervert stuff (and chances are he will choose you but find a way to still do it) Pack his bags and tell him to leave and NEVER come back. He should not be alowed to have the children visit him unless it is supervised. Then take him for all you can so that he will understand how big the consequences are when you Cheat on your wife (because I think he is) Then RUN don't walk, away from this guy...
2006-11-19 15:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by EmmaGee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Er, well, the question shouldn't be how you can stop him, more so, why is he viewing sex sites and chatting with young girls in foreign lands. That is the important question.
2006-11-19 15:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Seamus 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoken to him about how much this bothers you? Some sex sites aren't that bad, but I draw the line personally at chatting with someone. I hope the girls are not that young...I really hope that everything works out for you. Depending on how serious this is maybe you can talk it through in counselling. If you're really disturbed about it maybe you can talk it over with someone you trust and decide what you want to do. Good luck.
2006-11-19 15:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does it too.I am ok with him watching porn but I did not like the idea of him chatting a woman in China.The reason is that the magzine does not respond back but when he was chatting this girl she was some one who responed and they eveb did webcaming.I talked to him last year and he said he would stop but he did not.He just created a new id and carried on so now i have decided to break a 4 year old relation which meant a lot to both of us.........I was wrong .It didnt mean much to him or he would have stopped it.
2006-11-19 15:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by abi s 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can you stop an addict from doing what he is addicted to? No, not really. He has to come to his own breaking point, hit a bottom on his own, then he will want to get well. After that, he will need a 12 step group and a higher power to keep him "sober". Yes, it is an addiction, same as any drug or alcohol. So pray hard that he will come to his senses someday.
2006-11-19 15:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront him.
it's the only way. (well, um, there ARE other ways but they might involve blocking a lotta sites and stuff, and i'm sure you don't want to get in a fight about it with him)
i guess it's sorta natural for all guys to be interested in.... um, you know.... but you should tell him to keep it in check, and that YOU are his WIFE, and what if his chatting relationships escalate into something dangerous?
talk to him about how you feel, and what you could do to fix this situation.
2006-11-19 15:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the telephone is in your name,disconnect the Internet.Or,get in the computer and erase all the programs he uses to chat and watch those girls.
2006-11-19 15:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop, he's a porn addict. But the young girls thing is a dangerous sign he may have pedophile tendencies. Anyway, why would he want a girl when he has a woman?
2006-11-19 15:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Post your own pictures on sex sites. So when he finds them, you can chat with him.
2006-11-19 15:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by mike b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋