So i moved and have no friends. Now before you go get off the computer and get outside uh i do. i hang out at a club but am not 21 so it kinda sucks. i am turning 21 next wednes day but know that itll probably suck(as i have no friends). People at work are friendly and i am to them and we all seem to have fun together( there my age). but after work they all kind of go into there own little circles and im stuck at home alone. One offered to be my friend but she flaked out and never showed up to anything. im so depressed and tired of being alone. what the heck am i doing wrong? i spend everyweekend by myself at night. Im not a fan of churches because i feel so restricted and i cant have fun and be myself.And i dont drink alot so i dont know what to do. someone please help. if im alone this birthday i fear there wont be another.
2006-11-19 15:11:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ive been here for like 3 months now.
2006-11-19 15:19:08 · update #1
I moved from san diego because it became to expensive to live.Now im in a little cow town n oregon. i had to leave my friends behind(what few i had).i moved alot as a kid so i never made any good friends like most people. well this is depressing me so...
2006-11-19 15:26:10 · update #2
Everyone goes through something like this. I dont have any friends in my area either and im 21 as well. You do to find things that are fun to you and do it when you have the time. you dont need friends to have a life. A life is created by what you make of it not by anyone else. I am on disability because of a shoulder injury and so i cant work. I stay at home all the time because i cant drive because of my shoulder. Its hard but it gets better. And you just moved there, that doesnt mean you wont make friends in the future. Never give up...that is the first lesson in life.
2006-11-19 15:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by FotoFan85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you move? What did you think it was going to be like? My solution is to get involved in activities that you truly like. Such as ...take a photography class, join a soccer team, take a cooking class. Get the idea?
2006-11-19 23:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sorry u feel this way, but i to feel this way. i just resently moved as well. what i have learned is u just have to be yourself and let them come to you. the more u try and push people cuz u want them so bad; the more they dont wanna be around u. just my own personal experience- take it as u will.
2006-11-19 23:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ree Ree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋