I'm 21 and i have friend that is 25 and 12 weeks along. I live with her and her mom & dad. They want me to tell her to have an abortion and i dont want to i dont belive in it and i really think it will make her happy. Her and the baby daddy are not together anymore. i dont what do.
2006-11-19 15:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by Cam's mama 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well honestly its not your problem its hers shes the one who made the mistake so dont let them try to put all this on you and you decide her decisions for her!
2006-11-19 15:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend, I would just be there for her, and as far as telling her to have an abortion thats not your place, its the parents place to tell their own kid that but they should think, maybe she wants the baby even though her and the baby's daddy isnt together, you dont need a man to raise a baby and Abortion is just wrong. Its killing an unborn child and breaking a commandment. Maybe they need to see how their daughter feels about the situation since she is of age.
2006-11-19 23:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well shes 25, why is she still living at home..? Why dont u have ur own home..? well u cant decide what happens to her unborn child, but u can be a good friend and be by her side...plus her mommy and daddy cant tell her what to do anymore anywayz, so either way they r screwed...Having an abortion will not make her happy, it'll only make her worse...
abortion is wrong, and should be illegal..!
2006-11-19 23:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No abortions are wrong! its murder! your doing the right thing by not wanting her to do that. But her parents cant tell her what to do shes 25, a grown woman. If she wants the baby tell her to keep. If she cant take care of it the least she can do is give it up for adoption. Please do your best to keep her from getting an abortion and i hope everything works out.
God Bless
2006-11-20 20:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Questions ^_^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if both of you are living under her parents roof then you should obey their rules, however, by law, you both are capable and of age to make your own decisions. Her parents should not and cannot make you tell her what to do. I have to say that abortion is wrong because I believe that only God has the power of life and death in His hands. The parents should be responsible enough to tell their child what they think but then again, by law, they cannot tell her what to do. Worse case scenerio is that they make you move out of their home. You should stay out of the middle of this and leave it between the parents and their daughter as it should be.
2006-11-20 00:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by miteyrock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 weeks i think is to far along to get that done tell her if she dont want to raise the baby im sure there is a loveing family out there that would that cant have a baby
2006-11-19 23:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by alysiac78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, abortions are wrong.
Abortion is murder.
Take your friend to a crisis pregnancy center.
Anyways, shes 25, her parents cant tell her what to do!
2006-11-19 23:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kat Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pro-choice myself, but I can respect your view on this. Explain to them that you don't agree with abortion. Do it politely and respectfully. If they want her to do this, they need to talk to her. However, they should not try to convince her to have an abortion. It is her body, and her decision. Be there for her, it could be really hard on her to know that her parents want her to do this. Be supportive, and don't let them talk her into it if it's not what she wants. If she starts to have problems with them because of it, back her 100%. She might really need someone to be on her side if they don't accept her decision!
2006-11-19 23:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would make her happy..the abortion or the baby? Bottom line is always be true to yourself and if she is your friend and real friend the sitdown and TALK. you can explain your postion and feelings. Trust me on this one sheis possibly as scared as anyone and would appreciate talking. just dont make condem. The damage is done...now it is time to damage control! good luck
2006-11-19 23:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by canned_stuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. They can't ask you to tell her. That is just WRONG! Why can't they tell her!? In fact encourage her to follow through with having the child. If she still does not want it, tell her to put it up for adoption. There are thousands that want children and cannot have any on their own.
2006-11-19 23:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by cold runner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋