i love my friend to death, but it seriously gets annoying when she like freaks out if they dont have any burritos left at lunch, she'll luike be a big *****, and be all over dramatic about it. and sometimes she gets way to wild and i seriously tell her to like smoke some weed so she can CHILL OUT. (she would never do it if you were wondering) i dont want to be mean, and i need a nice way to say it.
*also, she has trouble keeping her mouth shut. like she will tell people that i have just met, if sex just happens to come up, that i'm not a virgin, and when i say i dont want to say who i lost it to, she'll say his name... it's a bit rude. and it;s not the best first impression, "hi this is my friend *****, oh by the way, she lost her virginity to ******"..... ugh.
WHAT CAN I SAY WITHOUT BEING MEAN?
2006-11-19 15:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her what she is afraid of. Tell her she doesn't have to go to the extreme to hide anything from you. She can be totally safe and honest with you. You have to build a bridge for her to see and focus on.It's all an act to hide her pain and suffering. She wants desperately to be heard and acknowledged.She won't change until she sees it and acknowledges it. Be a friend and let her know she doesn't have to fake a good deal.
2006-11-19 15:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend could have panic or anxiety disorder, and could have trouble controlling the impulse to blurt out anything that crosses her mind. Both come under the heading of difficulty controlling impulses, and she may not be able to help it. She needs your help to be a better friend. Talk to her and find out if she is just nervous and doesn't mean to blurt stuff out, or if she can't stop herself. Tell her it makes you feel humiliated, and ask her if you two can find a way for her not to do it, like if you give her a nudge or a certain look or something. This may take the two of you some practice, so make sure your friendship is worth it. Good Luck : )
2006-11-19 15:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She seems like she has some issues or something!
Ask if she is OK?
How's her family life and sooo on?
You might want to look for a new friend!
If you still want to be friends with her.
Tell how you feel! Tell her to put herself in your shoes. Ask her how it would make her feel if you were doing that to her.
If she is a true friend you guys will work things out.
2006-11-19 15:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly have countless delight, so i could only say, "thank you on your honesty", and then, i could on no account communicate to the guy lower back. This individual sounds very chilly and selfish. You deserve yet another pal, a real pal.
2016-11-25 20:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by lempicki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SH3 N33DS TO GROW UP, BE MATURE ABOUT THINGS LIKE THAT....SHE MIGHT BE A REAL G00D FRIEND AND ALL BUT IF SHES LIKE THAT ALL THE TIME,THEN I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST KEEP THINGS U DONT WANT OTHER PEOPLE KN0WING TO YOURSELF.0R iF U REALLY NEED TO TALK JUST TELL THE PEOPLE YOU [[REALLY KNOW U CAN TRUST]] AND THAT WONT BURST OUT SAYING YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS LIKE THAT....HOP3FULLY I HELPED U OUT [[a LiL]] =) ....AND ABOUT THE WHOLE OVERDRAMATIC PART...iM SORRY I REALLY DONT KNOW WUT TO TELL U....BECAUSE I ALSO HaV3 A FRiEND JusT LIKE THAT & I REALLY NEVER KNEW HOW TO TELL HER EiTHER. & TiLL THIS DAY SHES LIKE THAT. LOL.TaK3 CARE. BuH By3!
2006-11-19 15:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by LiL_LaDii_iN_T3aRS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends sucks, she might be jealous of you too
2006-11-19 15:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋