Okay I'm 13 and pregnant. My little sister says when she turns 13 she wants to pregnant. How do I convince her against it?!?
2006-11-19 14:39:05 · 13 answers · asked by 13 year old girl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She does know what sex is. My mother told her when she asked. "How did Julie's daughter get in there?"
2006-11-19 15:25:40 · update #1
She will see all that you go through.
You won't have to say a thing.
She will learn it is just a big mess you are in.
Let her enjoy your baby with you, but be honest with her about all the problems you have, as they arise.... and they will.
I♥♫→mia☼☺†
2006-11-19 14:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really good that you see that you are setting an example for your younger sister, it's even better that you wouldn't want the same thing for her.
Don't stress out about it. She's only 6, she has plenty of time before it would even be a possibility. If you make it a point to talk to her when it comes up or when it would be appropriate about the situation over the next few years she'll be fine.
Chances are that from seeing you raise the child and what you go through she'll be more than persuaded to wait til she's much older.
When we're six years old we want to emulate the people that we look up to. you're worried right now that she'll get the wrong idea but as she grows up and matures she'll be more reasonable.
2006-11-19 14:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you little kids think getting pregnant is a game,By you being the older sister you was suppose to let her know right from wrong but all you did was show her wrong. i don't feel sorry for you at all, your 13 and pregnant that's not good, you don't even know what life is my lil sister is 13 also and all she talks about is school and what she want to be when she grow up.
2006-11-20 09:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by One Love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's only 6-- all little kids say things like that. She'll probably grow out of it. Teach her to be responsible and not end up pregnant... as she gets older shell get mad at listening to the baby crying all night and etc etc and she will most likely change her mind about wanting a child so early in life.
2006-11-19 14:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 6, she doesn't get it yet. She will some day. I would talk to her about how hard it is, how sick you feel, how you can't do what you want......etc b/c you are pregnant. But like I said, she is 6 and she can't comprehend the responsibility, etc. yet. You probably can't either.
When she gets tolder talk to her about it. If you keep the baby then you can talk to her when you are 20 and she is 13. Talk to her about the sacrifices, but I think by then she won't want to follow in your footsteps.
Good luck to you.
Beth
2006-11-19 14:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Beth M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry on your dads passing. :( You sound like a astounding individual. it is so great of you to take care of your sister. I agree inclusive of your mum desires some help to help her take care of the grief it extremely is using her to drink, the kinfolk healthcare expert could be a stable initiate you are able to communicate over with them in spite of if she's no longer there. As for Sophia it does sound like she's in denial of your dads passing, or perhaps she would not totally understand, maximum probable the two. Mommys no longer making her experience risk-free on the 2d so she turns to dad, only he's no longer there the two. yet you are the only looking after her so in her ideas you alter into him. i think of you may take her to be certain a expert, possibly like the pediatrician? and that they are able to handbook you as to the final thank you to help her, and doubtless locate her a counsillor. She extremely desires you precise now so save doing what you're doing. it extremely is gloomy even if it is likewise very candy, you're an astounding individual to try this. i'm hoping each little thing works out nicely, stable success and ultimate desires.
2016-11-25 20:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by lempicki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.. show her how hard it is to be 13 and pregnant... show her that it isn't easy and that she should wait untill she is older. Tell her that she won't be able to be a kid anymore once she has a baby and that she will have a big responsibility. And tell her that you want her to t be able to go to college and get a job and make enogh money to support and baby and she will be emotionally ready when she is older too.
2006-11-22 12:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only 6 right now and doesnt understand any of that yet. Just tell her what you did was not the best choice in the world and its so much better to wait until you are older. She is not going to get it.
2006-11-19 14:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she will grow out of that trust me, she is only six years old and she just wants to be like her big sis. she probobly doesnt know what sex is right now. she might but i doubt it. she is going to change her mind tho cause kids always change their minds when they get older. trust me
2006-11-19 15:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by hotty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all i feel sorry for you and what where you thinking you cant even get a job to take care of your self hopeful she will see how messed up all of this is
2006-11-19 14:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by ashley l 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋