what shud i do?

Question

I am having suicidal thoughts but I'm only 15??my mom puts so much stress on me I don't even feel like living sometimes!!!!

Answer 1

You need to find some help immediately. It sounds as though you don't think your mother understands you, so I suggest that you talk with your guidance counselor at school. Go to the office before class and tell the receptionist that you have an important personal matter you need to talk with your guidance counselor about.

Be honest when talking with the guidance counselor.

Answer 2

That's quite a good question. To be frank, you're not the only one experiencing suicidal thoughts. Many other teenagers in Singapore do so too, like me. Given Singapore's culture, much is focused on studies and 'paper chase'. I suppose your stress is based on 'paper chase' as most of us do? If that is it, you could try explaining to your mom your limitations, and what you are interested in, in a polite and courteous manner, so that she can understand you better. If you're afraid of rejection or whatsoever, you can do so by writing your mum a letter, or send her an email. Results are not all there should be; there are other areas of development. Let her know that you're maturing and can make your own decisions, and that you have enough discipline to do the things that you need to do. If necessary, you might try seeking a school teacher, or maybe the school counsellor(if your school has one). They usually would help you to their best of their abilities.
Remember, you're not alone!! Many others are in it too... (hope this helps)

Answer 3

I don't think the person with all of the Hearts is being fair to you. Your feelings are just as real & legit as anybodys. Talk to your mom, & when you do, speak about your self, & your feelings, not about her, & the stress she puts on you, just how you truly feel about it.
If you are really feeling suicidal then reach out to somebody, but make sure it's an adult, & one that you can trust. Maybe a school councellor, or a church pastor, but don't keep it all inside. Talking to someone who sympathises & understands is a great relief, & helps in a huge way.
Here's one place you can start. http://kidshelp.sympatico.ca/en/about/counselling.asp
Good Luck

Answer 4

Suicide is no end to misery. We are eternal spirit souls. We never die only the body dies. When one takes their own life they do not die but become a ghost who incessantly suffers the misery they experienced before death. They are more tormented due to no one being able to hear or see them. They have no senses to enjoy so they constantly try to take over peoples bodies to try to enjoy. The thing is one has to know what our actual purpose is in life to be truly happy. We are in the land of Maya or illusion which is temporary and full of misery. If on wants the veils of illusion removed so they can see thing as they are and be truly be happy the quickest and easiest way its to chant the Maha mantra (the Great mantra for deliverance. Go to http://www.stephen-knapp.com/chanting_hare_krishna.htm everything is there on this site to become free from misery one just has to apply the process. Gauranga-(gore-runga)-The Universal greeting- May the greatest good and highest joy be yours. Don't give up your suffering is only temporary.

Answer 5

You need to talk to someone immediately.

You may be feeling tired, alone, depressed, scared, angry, hopeless, or unloved, and it may seem that things will never get better. However, no matter how overwhelming your problems seem, confidential help is available.

Trained, caring adults can help you to find alternatives you may not have considered and solutions to problems or situations that may seem hopeless. If you are depressed, effective treatments are available that will help to relieve your sadness, anger, and pain.

Numbers for suicide hotlines and crisis centers should be available in your local phone book or call 1-800-SUICIDE.

Answer 6

A lot must have happened. Sorry I can't do anything except to ask you to get professional help like a counsellor or psychiatrist. You're only 15 and have a bright future ahead, pls do seek early help.

Answer 7

Try to talk to your parents/mom. Seek professional help. Even through city, county organizations. Hang in there and do not give up.

Answer 8

consider telling your school counselor.
also consider having a heart-to-heart with your mom
(preferably with the counselor there)
your momprobably has lots of her own stress.
Think about taking up martial arts to learn to control your
response to the situation. To learn to control your own stress level like judo or aikido or karate or something.

Answer 9

dont kill ur self.... do u know how mant ppl u will hurt. and how much u will regret it 1ce (once) u relize u r dead. my goodness do not do it. i repeat DO NOT DO IT. and jst cause of ur mom. wen u feel like ~killing~ ur self think of all the ppl u luv and all the ppl that luv u!!!

Answer 10

I would definately call that number the other user gave you for help.