2006-11-19 14:20:21 · 39 answers · asked by babablack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How many ways can it be said that if he cheats on his wife, he will cheat on you. Don't believe a word out of his lying mouth.
2006-11-19 14:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way... Why should he leave his Wife?? He gets all the benifts of being with his family and his wife. Then he gets to call you and have a fantastic time with you. Because you used to be married you should respect the bond more especially if you could imagine how his wife would feel if she found out.
Its probably hard for him to just pick up and leave and I am sure you know that but you deserve more than some guy who smiles and plays with you but then goes home and lays in the bed with someone else. You deserve a man who will lay with you and only you.
And really the truth about guys like that is they are selfish. He wants his way. He wants to have the cake and eat it too. If he did leave his wife for you (which the chances are very slim) would you trust him you met he while he was cheating on his wife. If he doesnt respect that union he probably wont respect anything else..
Good luck..
2006-11-19 14:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by kaliprincess82 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why go for a married man and break up someone elses life just because you got a divorce,there is plenty of singles out there so why bother with the ones that are all ready married,you got your divorce now go out and have some real fun.
This guy may say that he will leave his wife for you but don't bet money on it, because if he loves his wife any at all he will not leave her he hasn't yet has he and to it sounds like all he wants is to get in your pants and if your that easy then why leave his wife just to be with you and then have thoughts that you might go for someone else I don't think so.
best thing to do is find you someone that isn't married or has been divoced and don't put your self so cheep like that.
Just because you and your mate had problems why try to split someone else up for just because you weren't happy with who you was with that don't make since at all I bet if the tables was turned on you like that and it might have been but two wrongs don't make a right.
2006-11-19 14:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Up to you whether you believe him or not, but trust me, you do not want to be the other woman in a divorce. Its painful and ruins you. I would say leave now before any major damage is done. You should know that it is not so easy to leave a wife just like that, regardless of how unhappy the marriage may be.
What he is saying is to keep you there with him, thats all. The least he could do is be upfront with you.
2006-11-19 17:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you would put yourself in this position. Not only to help to wreck a home (it must have problems already or he would not be cheating....but you don't have to add to the problems) but to now find yourself with a man you obviously have feelings for and don't know if you can trust him. Do you know why you are not sure if you can believe him? Because he is lying already to his wife and you know it. You know what kind of man he is already. Do you really think that you can be the one to get him to stay faithful? He will do to you what he has done to her if everything doesn't go his way. You will always have in the back of your mind that he cheated before with you. There will be no trust in the relationship and that does not make for a good relationship. But then I think you already realize that.
So really what does it matter if you believe him or not. You really need to move on to someone you can trust.
And don't put yourself in this spot again.
Good Luck
2006-11-19 14:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't believe him. You are having doubts, and that is right. He has you wrapped around his finger. How would you feel if you were his wife being cheated on? If I were you I would tell him he can call you when he is divorced. He probably feels so great because he has two woman to have sex with, not just one.
As much as I hate to tell you this, he's using you. No matter what he says, he is. If you want to stay with him go ahead, but I would suggest you didn't.
2006-11-19 14:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by who_is_audrey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, he and his wife should be working on making their marriage stronger, and you having sex with him damages his marriage. What makes you think your going to be any happier even if he leaves his wife.
And did you cheat on your husband and that's why your divorced now?
You seriously need to grow up and STOP thinking of yourself first. Think of others and the hurt and pain what your doing will cause them. You have really bought into the teaching of the world that it's all about me, me, me. That your more important than anyone or anything else.
Grow UP
2006-11-19 14:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its fine that you're divorced, but your lover isn't. Thinking that he'll leave his wife for you and everything will be fine is like thinking that pigs fly. You would be destroying 2 peoples relationship and possibly destroy his poor wife. Having an affair is never OK. Your lover has proved he is a cheater; you obviously don't care who you hurt; your relationship would be built on lies. End it now and you'll save everyone a lot of heartache.
2006-11-19 14:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't believe him. He's lying to you. He'll keep onto you because he's getting the best of both worlds. Also, if he did leave his wife, which he most likely wont, would you want someone like that? He's cheated on his wife, so whats to stop him cheating on you? Get a decent man, he aint worth your time. He's probably only in it for sex. It'll end in tears, and you'll be worse off - trust me!
2006-11-19 14:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by tahanni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt believe him men always say that but never do and may i add why be with a married man yes you are divorced and he is not but why help him break his promise he made to his wife? i am married 3 kids and my husband had an affair with some one for 6 wks be hind my back yes it was his choice but she should of thaught what if i was in her shoes we are now separated but he is beggin for my forgivness and has nothing to do with the other woman i dont know if its me he misses or he misses his car, house, kids, credit card and his bank account chances are he has alot tied up in his relationship with his wife not just sex cause he is bored
2006-11-19 14:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this not the oldest line in the book??? Of course he'll leave his wife dear, right after the children have graduated, the mortgage is paid off, his wifes health is better, his kids college is paid off, insert whatever other lie you're going to believe here...
Hope you experience as much pain and misery as you're causing his wife and kids when he does the same to you.
2006-11-19 16:00:59 · answer #11 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋