My mom isn't rich but she makes more than enough money to purchase food. She even gets money from me for rent. If I don't pay rent I will get kicked out of the house. Today I just lost it. I yelled at her and told her I was tired of starving all the time. She says she doesn't have to provide food for me and if I want to eat I should join the military. Was I wrong to yell at her?
2006-11-19 14:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by J 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
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2006-11-19 14:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the rent is supposed to include food, utilities and other stuff then she should provide a certain amount of food. If the money you give doesn't pay for all your food (or if you eat way more than a "normal" person) then you're on your own. Either way, there's no reason to actually yell. You should work out these details with her before this happens again. You don't need to join the military to eat, you just have to go to the store.
2006-11-19 14:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your mom have some serious issues to explore. There is much more to your difficulties than an empty refrigerator.
Yelling at her was probably a knee-jerk reaction to being hungry and not finding food. Your expectations about a nurturing mother were not met.
If you are basically on good terms with her, I believe it might be time to renegotiate each person's role in keeping up the house. If your rent payment does not include room and board, she must be clear on that. Does she have serious financial difficulties? Maybe you need to contribute more? I really think she should be clear on why she does not buy food.
2006-11-19 14:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by quijada 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...it's not good to yell at your mom...not about food. You can go and buy your own food...especially if she's making you pay rent. But instead of fussing...which never solves the problem...why don't ya'll try to work it out and you get the groceries one week and she goes the next...??? worth a shot...since she could get fed up with you and kick you out.
2006-11-19 14:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lil' Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not worldly wrong because many other people yell at their mothers too, but your esteemed mother is absolutely right.
For how long she fed you, and for how long you gave money to her?
Please learn to love tenderly and respect highly your beloved mother. If you cannot love her, you will not be able to love anyone else on earth, including those who will feed you more abundantly than her.
2006-11-19 14:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never yell at your mother.
2006-11-19 14:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by green star 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, she should have made more money before she made your greedy ***.
2006-11-19 14:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
grow up.. Its not about you...
2006-11-19 14:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋