I have an ex boyfriend who is a major coke head ..like really badd!!!!!! he comes around to my house and stalks me ...and he also calls my job !!! I still have alot of feelings for him , but i dont think i would ever be able to go back out with him , cause he cheated on me . He has a girlfriend who is also a 'coke head ' really bad and she got him hooked on it ..i dont think she knows he calls me but he called me from her house and said he loved me . i dont wanna break his heart ...i still do love him but not so sure if i wanna be with him . I had a really bad dream that he died ...n i cryed in my sleep . I only wanna be his friend but i dont know how to tell him. can u help me ??
2006-11-19 14:03:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be honest. That is always the best policy. The longer you string someone along with false intentions the harder it is on both parties in the end. Everyone's heart has been broken over something or someone at sometime and it hurts bad but then another door opens and with a lesson learned you find that "Hey this life is getting better all the time and you turn around and toss that coke and the friends of it to the wind and keep moving on. You go girl !!!
2006-11-19 14:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is bad news hun!!
He has to choose between the ex, the coke and you.
I dont think it is a good idea to maintain feelings for him though, you really do need to end contact with him and get over this druggy
2006-11-19 14:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are laws against stalking....
If you yourself are not prepared to become a "coke head" than you need to let him go and move on... YOu will never change his habits or his ways... He has to discover that he has a problem, and get help on his own
You are each taking different paths in life...
2006-11-19 14:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Daylynn456 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but you need to report him for stalking you, and tell them what you told us he needs to be put away. For the simple reason that stalking is a crime, and it will give them a chance to get him the help he needs. he needs to get clean, and learn the consequences of stalking and doing drugs. God Bless you . Hope you get the help that you need to feel piece of mind. Many hugs to you.
2006-11-19 14:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get with a coke head...he'll disappear on you. Be his friend and offer help. take him to church with you
2006-11-19 14:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you love the person inside of him the one that dont want to use drugs.and tell him to go to a program to get clean like A.A. and N.A. and tell him there only three places he heading to jail,institution,death and you dont want that to happen but if he dont stop. tell him that how can you love me if you dont even love your self look at what you doing to your self. you are killing your self slowly.
2006-11-19 14:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by SENSES 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the police on him. If you are in the USA it is a federal offence for stalking and he can spend time in a federal prison for it.
2006-11-19 14:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your own life
2006-11-19 14:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by TBone 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋