Does a father-in-law have the right to discipline his daughter in law? He said he wanted to spank me because?

Question

My father in law, (I'll call him "Mr. Smith") called today and asked to speak to my husband but he sounded really drunk on the phone and I didn't think it was a good idea to give my husband the phone at this time so I just asked him if I could take a message and get my husband to call him back. Mr. Smith asked why he couldn't talk and I told him I didn't want to give the phone to my husband because he sounded very mean and drunk on the phone at the time and I was afraid he might upset my husband. He got really mad at me and said when he comes up to visit for Thanksgiving he is going to give me the belt for being a bad girl. I told him my husband wouldn't let him spank me for this and he said he would be watching me like a hawk for me to mess up. I'm really scared because my husband let him discipline me a year ago when I was being a brat. I got upset and told him he should get his own drink. I know that was wrong but he was being so mean. Do you all think its okay to be

disciplined by anyone else besides your parents or husband? I know one of my friends had this happen to her too and we both don't like it. Do you think I can convince my husband to not let him do that to me anymore?

Please don't talk bad about my husband. I love him so much and I know I need LDD (Loving Domestic Discipline) to be a good wife sometimes. I might not like getting spanked or disciplined but I know it helps me be a better wife and it shows that my husband cares about me. I just don't like the idea of my father in law doing that, you know?

Answer 1

read her questions history people before you answer!

SERIOUSLY, READ HER HISTORY OF QUESTIONS, SHE( IF SHE'S A GIRL, WOMAN, MAN, WHO KNOWS) IS MAKING THIS STUFF UP TO GET A RISE OUT OF PEOPLE.

Little Angel, to answer your question, I think it's ok.

Answer 2

NO, he has no right to discipline you, your not his daughter, besides your an adult, he has absolutely NO place to do that.

Why did you let him spank you the time he did before. Just because you upset him is no reason for your father in law to spank you. He is a sick man, and needs alot of help.

That's just sick and wrong, and your husband needs to stand up to his father, because he should be telling his father that it's not right for him to spank you.

Answer 3

Best thing to do is let your husband take the phone the next time and let him talk to ''daddy'', as for the ''spanking'', that's sexual assault meaning (unwanted physical touching) and if your husband lets him do that, then he too is just as guilty, best thing to do is cancel thanksgiving dinner with your in-laws and tell your father-in-law his actions and intents are unwelcomed at your house. Your husband needs some ''backbone'' to deal with him.
***************** SPECIAL NOTE *******************************
I just read your previous questions and frankly my dear, Either a lot of people are wasting their time answering your questions because of the unbelievable content in them or you are heading for a SERIOUS fall with these so called people you are involved with. Start listening to THESE PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP YOU or give it up. A lot of people here are trying to help others with real problems, not fairy-tales ....OK ? These questions sound more like a soap opera then anything else !!!

Answer 4

Yes Chris l think you could be right !! Just in case though here is what l think. Your husband should grow some balls and tell his father if he ever lays a hand on you again, it will be last thing he ever does. If your husband does not support you, give him his marching orders also. No-one has the right to lay a hand on you. You are an adult for god sake.

Answer 5

I don't think any one has the right to hit any one. I don't believe my husband has the right to spank me. Some may believe otherwise. I would consider it abuse and press charges. From a biblical perspective only your parents when you are a child or your husband has the right to "discipline you" and only then under some interpretations. So no it is not OK.

Answer 6

Hell no! Its not okay for your father-in-law to "discipline" you and especially not spank you! Where in God's name do you live...in Dogpatch? Being a good wife does not mean that you allow some mean son-of-a-bit** treat you like a servant or a second class citizen. I would suggest counseling, but you seem to me like someone who has been brainwashed by people who are cruel, hateful, and abusive.

Answer 7

What country r u in and what is your age?

I tell you no man would ever spank me unless he wanted me to karate kick his head repeatedly...I had a husband who hit me once and I made positive nobody would hit me again.

You get you father over for thanksgiving and get him to discipline you father in law or lay down the law about touching his daughter.

Answer 8

You are obviously making this crap up. Perhaps you should find an old, drunk sleaze bag who is prepared to discipline you (or even perhaps, your father in law!) to fulfil your fantasies rather than vicariously fulfilling them through yahoo answers, because we don't want to participate!

Answer 9

well as long as your telling such a load of bullsh!t.
I think your father-in-law should beat you with a hickory switch behind the barn for all the lies your spreading here, till your little bum is redder than Santa Claus' robe.

Answer 10

How old are you 14???? And what kind of marriage do you have? I'm an adult and i no that there is not a grown man on this earth that is going to treat me like i'm a little child and threatin or even actually whip me... Grow up and stand up for yourself

Answer 11

You husband needs to explain to his dad that he is the only person that will discipline you. With that said, if you husband agrees that you need the discipline he must be allowed to give it to you and perhaps invite dad to watch since the was the one treated poorly.