I have known a friend of mine for as long as I've known my now husband. The guy is his best friend... Well..my husband just recently started talking to him again after a long period of not knowing where anyone was... and he is so fine....I honestly think I am infatuated this this guy...I'm not in love with him...I love my husband..but we're always fighting...and I want to be close to him..hang out with him....I know it wrong... what should I do about my crush?
2006-11-19 13:25:19 · 21 answers · asked by heart'sbreath 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop it right now. It is okay to think someone is hot... we all find other people attractive besides our lovers... but not to keep on thinking of him and fantasizing about him! That is wrong. Do you love your husband? Get your mind busy with something else. :)
2006-11-19 13:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥gingeylynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what i think is that u are allowed to think the guy is hot, but if u keep thinking about that guy is hot, then u will probably don't consider ur husband that much. Because u might be concentrating on ur hot guy, but not to ur husband. So if i were u, i wouldn't think that guy is hot. Look at ur husband as a hot guy.
2006-11-19 13:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by smartdancer_28 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl friend a piece of advise its okay to want the forbidden fruit but to hint or open up to it at this time highly inappropriate
keep it inside trust me do you know how many guys find you attractive and do not dare its da man code rule especially when they are friends. Girl its natural to feel but don't cross da line especially if you love your man aw
2006-11-19 13:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Chi-Girli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SUre you can think guys (in general) are hot... but you had better not think this guy in specific is hot... (well maybe a little hot is o.k.)
If you're not getting along with your hubby, you had better try to fix things first... if they are fixable.
On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you love your hubby?
Remember, anyone looks good if you are having to put up with their "baggage".
2006-11-19 13:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure, surely, because of the fact it extremely is the exhilaration of having the forbidden fruit. once you won't be able to have something it only makes you choose for it plenty extra. a warm married woman might nicely be risky. yet in recent times something and each little thing occurs. i could if she needed it that undesirable, why no longer? im continually searching for something to get my adrenaline flowing, love the push
2016-11-25 20:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok for you to think another guy is hot, but it sounds like you're beyond that. This part, "and I want to be close to him..hang out with him" is bad.
...and I'd try to get over that quietly. Don't expect your husband to handle that well if you bring it up.
2006-11-19 13:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Elvis W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THere's nothing wrong with thinking a guy is hot. Stop and think. you said you and your hubby are fighting--your just looking for greener pastures. Work out what ever problem it is with your hubby. To do anything else would be wrong.
2006-11-19 17:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by firefly06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for me nope but this is my own opinion..i even think sometimes im not normal lol but once im in relation i can't say other guys are hot than my patner.i choose and love my guy because for my eyes he is the hottest.do u really love your husband?try to talk with your husband.
2006-11-19 13:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work on your marriage. You can think other men are attractive, of course, because you're married, not dead. However, don't focus your attention on the other guy. Spend time patching your relationship up. If it can't be fixed then get out of it.
2006-11-19 13:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah it's okay to think another guy is hot but to want to act on those thoughts is another issue... Either stop thinking about taking it a step further than just thinking man he's hot to thinking ow ya or get a divorce... Its not right for you to do that to your spouse.
2006-11-19 14:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋