its been 2 months since my mom married this american guy. he was my stepdad, but every time i talk to him i feel like im shaking. why am i scared of him? he seems like a good person. one time he told my mom that 'why are your kids not taling to me? im really upset' i dont even know the reason why am i scared of him?
2006-11-19 13:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by Janna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
his actually not abusing me. maybe i just feel a little akward about my mom marrying another guy.
2006-11-19 13:32:37 · update #1
just be polite to him and keep yourself busy elsewhere out of his way .if , after a few weeks you still feel like that thn either talk to your mother or a counsellor at your school .it could be your sixth sense telling you to be wary
2006-11-19 13:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel scared around him then something isn't right. Your mom should know about this, even though she or your stepdad might get mad. If being around him doesn't feel right there is probably a good reason, and then only way to work it out is for your mom to know.
You could just be taking a while to warm up to him, it happens sometimes. In this case just try to spend time with him doing things that don't involve much talking. If you don't feel comfortable being with him alone then stay with a sibling or your mom when you are with him.
2006-11-19 21:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by starr_wix_wickens_aka.starreyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two things...
1) You may have heard too many stories of "stepdads" abusing the kids
or...
2) Your subconscious is picking up something that is activating your "freight or flight" instinct.
Just keep your guard up for a while and the tension should ease up. The subconscious can read things that you would normally not see.
2006-11-19 21:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not used to having a male figure around. It takes time to adjust. For the time being, don't be too scared if he doesn't seem harmful. Soon enough you'll loosen up and not be so afraid.
2006-11-19 21:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by kz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just afraid of men. It might take you years to feel comfortable around him.
2006-11-19 21:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably just akward. your not used to having another male around and so its a change. dont worry just be your self.
2006-11-19 21:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by chan_tha_man95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell your mother how you feel and then myabe the feeling will go away!
2006-11-19 21:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS A YANK THEREFOR A PERVERT REPORT HIm TO THE POLiCE hell make up that he touched you they will put his lame azzz in jail
2006-11-19 21:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by tardboy4u2luv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋