I told him I wanted to wait till marriage but he always pressured me. Finally i gave in and had sex and then he breaks up with me!!! WHY!?!!?
2006-11-19 13:20:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because he got what he wanted. You should have stayed true to what you wanted and not done it.
2006-11-19 13:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As Ive said to others. Firstly yes i am a male there for when i say 90% of males are filthy scum there scum.That's one reason !!!WHY!!!. You've got to understand what you want.What do you want.Do you want a relationship or sex .He wanted sex but made you believe he wanted a relationship that is his entry card into the 90% .Because that is thee only way scum like this get to play.If your honestly in the 10% club you must be Honest-Have integrity-Loyalty-If we want sex we say we want sex that's just a handful of thee requirement needed for the 10% club .In summary (why did he pressure me then when he struck gold he ran with his tail between his legs) All you where was another notch on his belt-something to brag to his mates about-Or just a heartless scum that only thought about himself.Learn from this sweetie don't let it happen again.Yes there is equally a female 80% club of scan ks....
2006-11-19 21:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by georgiecage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly. because hes a di ck. thats all there is to it. some guys care and some guys dont. its unfortunate that you ran into one that didnt and that you did something you didnt want to but i hope you find a guy who will wait for you if you ask. and honestly if you say no and a guy doesnt accpet that they are not worth it.
and just a little story to cheer you up, well make you feel less bad.
i had this friend and she and her boyfriend had been togetther for three years, one day they were having sex and he was being akwardly rough, like hurting her alot, and all the sudden he just stopped and said i cant do this anymore, and i dont mean the sex, i mean us. and just up and left.
so yeah, guys are di cks but remember what i said there are ones who care and really will wait for you, so if you tell a guy no and he says alright and sticks around then youve found yourself a good one. good luck
2006-11-19 21:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear this happened to you. the first thing i will say is you were right...sex is for marriage. it causes to many problems and entanglements when it happens before marriage. the second thing is ...what goes around comes around. he made you believe that he was serious about you and then he bailed. if he tries to come back when he gets bored...be strong and tell him no because he has no respect for you. he's just out trying to put notches on his belt. he's sound very selfish. hopefully you will be able to move on soon. sorry you had to go through this....
it makes me sooooo mad. just don't hate all guys because of one bad apple...there's a cool dude out there...just wait and see and don't give it up...jeez, what the rush there's so many other things yall can do.
2006-11-19 21:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have let him get to you. If you wanted to wait till marriage then he should have respected you for that and he didnt which means he didnt love you or care about you. Guys are heartless, im sorry it happened.
2006-11-19 21:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by snowangelkiss_15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel im 16 years and my girlfrien did that to well im crhistian and pray every night so can god forgives me well if ur no cristian anyway he got what he wanted i know how feel tdifernt feelings at the same time is not easy but the pains go away it takes time but it goes.
2006-11-19 21:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men, and some Ladies only want what they cannot have. The minute you gave in and had sex, the "chase" was over and he moved on to another "conquest".
2006-11-19 21:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have yourself to blame for not sticking to your own values. When you give in to what others want and it goes against your own good judgment you are the one who pays the price not the other person. Im sorry for you but its a good lesson. Lets hope you learned from it.
2006-11-19 22:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL its because he only wanted sex & he got it off you. SO you are just a notch on his bed post now. why didnt you ask for advice before you had sex with him. we could of told you what he would do.
i just hope many girls read this & realize boys dont really want you they just want sex.
2006-11-19 21:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wasn't much of a boyfriend. Sounds like a hit and run. Be glad he's gone, hon. If he truly cared for you, he'd still be with you. You're better off without him.
2006-11-19 21:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a thing insecure guys do. at least you know not to trust people who try to pressure you now. sorry you went through that. i never dump someone right after having sex...seems cruel.
2006-11-19 21:26:20 · answer #11 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋