he left a false address and no number. can i still get child support even though i am in ok and he is in ny and no info on him? i know that he works civil service....
2006-11-19 12:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by living_dead_sandra 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't want him back!!!! i just want him to pay child support. he wanted this baby with me and then the butthead left because his daughter did not want me and my daughter in their life!! he broke my daughter's heart and i want him to pay for that if not for anything else.
2006-11-19 13:08:25 · update #1
The state will still give you child support, his account will just build up till it becomes over 10 grand, at which time it will be classified as a misdemeanor and the state will go looking for him and have him extradited and thrown in the clink for non payment of support.
You say he is in Civil Service? then you can find him easily, all you have to do is write to the state of NY department of Civil Service and tell them his name, ssn and send a copy of the judgment of child support, if he works for them they will just start garnishing his pay...LOL
Also if he has paid any bills electrical, telephone or utilities then his name becomes a matter of public record and is available to you.
Go to this website http://www.intellius.com and fill out the necessary two lines of information, and it will pop up as available his address, phone number etc. To get this information you have to pay a fee of about 19 dollars, its an electronic transaction so you can have the information in a few minutes.
Go get him girl !!!
2006-11-19 13:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oklahoma has a place they Child Support Division here. I know as I have used it before in the passed and it worked for me. It don't matter where he is at, they will find him. If you have a recent picture of him that will help. But I think they also want to know where he is or where he is working if possible. It cost me $25.00 to get mine started and that was back in 96 or something like that. Sorry I have just tried to get that part of my life out of my mind totally. But no really just get in touch with them and see what they tell you. I got all my money from him and then the interest on top of that in the end. By the way, welcome to my home state, Oklahoma! We are good people here, most of us are anyway. Good luck.
2006-11-19 21:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately running away doesn't change the laws of child support. The laws will always be there, it's better to pay now than later. He could be paying support forever, running away won't make the problem go away. Get your order and keep it in force.
2006-11-19 21:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you still run after the guy when in fact you see how irresponsible he is. Would you like your child to grow up seeing that type of father? You could always support your child by own own or there will always be your friends and family whom you could seek help or advice.
2006-11-19 21:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Neliza Ann S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the court order in forced,and if you have to go to social service for help and he will have to repay that back to them,and at the end of the year IRS will hold his tax refund for child support and send it to you.
2006-11-19 21:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're entitled to support no matter how far apart you two live. The courts will help you track him down.
2006-11-19 21:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the long run, just depend on yourself. some how you will make ends meet. it really does happen.and you will be rid of the louse.
Be free from him. you will be all the happier if you do. it will be easier for you to feel open to other relationships you have in your future. i wish you good luck and good fortune.
2006-11-19 21:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually you can b/c that happened to my uncle and all you have to do is contact a social security office and they should be able to tell you his real adress/phone#
2006-11-19 21:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but i sure hope so!!!That no good son of a *****!!!!Guys always think they can get away with this!!!
2006-11-19 21:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by serenity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called his social security number date of birth.....these things you can't hide.....might take a minute but don't give up.
2006-11-19 21:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Renee F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋