I have asked many questions and have got some good answers. I need someone that has gone through what I am and can give me some advice. Has anybody saved a relationship that looked hopeless. What did you do. Please feel free to e-mail me. I will fill you in on the details. I don't need any smart @ss answers please. Thanks for everybody's help.
2006-11-19 12:49:50 · 6 answers · asked by William T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
(((hugs))) I've read your posts and my heart breaks for you. Marriage takes 2 and she has chosen to leave. You deserve better than leftovers. Let her go, get yourself some counselling and move on. You WILL find happiness and love again. Best wishes for healing to you my friend :-)
2006-11-19 16:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lot like an addiction, both of you will have to want it. We went to Marriage Encounter, a catholic based marriage strengthening weekend and it worked for 15 years afterward. Somehow each spouse has to believe marriage is an equal opportunity job. The days of male and female roles are over and each person has to give the marriage energy without excuses. IE the kids, the job, your mother, my sister, money, sickness. Good luck to you, I wish you strength
2006-11-19 13:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by wheeldave2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specifically .... I bought my marriage back!!! Costing about $10,000. but well worth it. My marriage is worth a trillion and it only cost $10,000. !!!
We took a vacation to Puerto Rico at the westin rio del mar for 10days leaving behind our 4 kids and had a terrible time/GREAT time.... all we remember is how terrific of a time we had and can't stop raving about it. Something in the water I guess??? :)
Believe me we don't do this kind of lavish spending ever and by no means are we rich but we knew it was definitely worth saving and well we are much better off than we were!!
2006-11-19 13:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by jmilil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are kids involved and there is no abuse, I believe you should work so very hard at it. We give up certain rights of happiness when we chose to have children. Trust me, I know what I am talking about, cause I am in the same boat right now
2006-11-19 12:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there is love, there is hope. Keep holding on!
2006-11-19 13:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I haven't been through it !
2006-11-19 13:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋