he is 28 and still lives w/ his parents he says that he is saving money to buy his own place, i still live with my parents but im 7 yrs younger than him. our sexual life kind of suck. we have very different schedules at work and im trying to tell him if one of us dont make a move we are not going to go to far. he claims he loves me but he hadnt suggested to live together. i dont want to ask him. what should i do?
2006-11-19 12:37:17 · 4 answers · asked by agentaita1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get to know him first, if it works out then maybe you get to live together
think in stages, when one thing is good, move on to the next step, no need to hurry at all
2006-11-19 12:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 Years is a big difference sometimes........If he isn't making a move to be on his own yet, then I don't think he just isn't ready for a commitment maybe. And you are only 21. Who says you have to be married at 21? Maybe just concentrate on a career and go from there. If you want more, then you have to make that decision....
2006-11-19 21:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is pretty old to still be living with his parents. If he is in college this could possibly be understandable though. If you are not happy with the level of commitment you have talk to him about it. However, loving you has nothing to do with whether or wants to live with you right now.
2006-11-19 21:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever seen 'Failure to Launch'?:-) I know movies are nothing like real life but I've never been in that situation so I really can't help you out much...sorry
2006-11-19 20:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by trackandxcrunner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋