Ive been trying to distance myself from this girl who seems confused about me..She is away visiting and has not revealed much about us sleeping togther...She has not responded to texts related to our encounter (I asked once..no reponse) In fact after 2 1/2 weeks and a few responded texts from me..she for the first time intiated contact with a: just wanting to say hi (AT 2AM).. I replied: Hi back and a miss ya.. Ive left it at that...She sent this two days after i told her to contact me when she returned home... So..Im wondering since its been a week since her contact if I should send her a msg..OR wait till she makes another move????(Again I have laid all out to her..And her to me before sleeping with me...Now she seems to have reverted into her str8 shell...)..
2006-11-19 12:30:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Perhaps she doesn't know how to feel right now. She's probably confused if she's gay or bi or str8 or what which may be the reason why she hasn't responded to your txts or made phone calls to you, etc. U probably need to give her time to process what had happened between you two. You probably just have to leave it at that, ie, don't force the subject anymore. Let her be the one to open up the discussion re: your sleeping together. If she doesn't, then try to ease into it gently. Invite her for coffee or dinner, etc. If it still doesn't work and she ignores it or doesn't say anything abt it, that means it's time to move on. Talking or having a discussion abt it face-to-face is the only way to go so good luck.
2006-11-19 17:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you're trying to distance yourself from her? Texting her things like "miss ya" might make her feel you are too clingy or needy after only one night together. If she's not responded so far, I think she's moved on and trying to distance herself from you. don't feel rejected or bad. Sometimes the chemistry isn't right on both sides. Move on and make some new friends. Be confident in yourself.
2006-11-19 12:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by bathagent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Femmegirl,
I wouldn't hold my breath if I was you! Sounds like she has already moved on for that matter for whatever reason, maybe it was a trail on her part. I am pretty sure she will only responded on occasion so why continue & get frustrated. Good luck relationships are always hard to figure out. Have a good day!
2006-11-19 12:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by dousmokedoobies69 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
comin from a stud's point of view she might be think she's got u on a leash make sure you change that wait for to contact you and if a week past by start lookin for another g/f cause she obviously wasn't all that interested from the start and jus had you to be able to say she could get some one, dont be her toy. hope this helps a lil
2006-11-19 13:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by HP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you ought to deliver her a message, simply by fact possibly she would not elect to sound "desperate" by utilising messaging you first. i be attentive to i've got confidence that way quite some the time while my boyfriend would not respond.
2016-10-22 09:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by bergene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a new hot lesbian and make her jalus...if she says anything tell her that she can join you any time, your door is open for her any time. f she wants to do a treesome with you and your new girl tell her that that is all right too.
2006-11-19 12:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's used you to ease her bi curiosity, don't contact her, wait and see if she comes to you, if she doesn't its her loss, move on and find some one who will appreciate you.
2006-11-19 12:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't send her a message, if she wants u she knows where to find u.
2006-11-19 14:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋