I'm not a supermodel or anything, but for the longest time i thought I was moderately attractive. I've had a hard time finding a girlfriend and I'm trying to find reasons why. I am going to post a few pictures, I'd like to get some female perspectives. I'm not one of those people who is trying to get patpats, or trying to tell people that i'm ohh so beautiful, but I'm honestly trying to figure out is wrong with me.
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2006-11-19 12:11:27 · 26 answers · asked by arkainisofphoenix 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Actually, dude, if I were single, I'd so be hitting on you right now. You're pretty damn hot.
Maybe it's your approach to meeting women . . . . maybe you haven't found the right woman . . . . it's hard to tell just from looking at you.
Give yourself time. My boyfriend was 31 when we met. I think he's beautiful, but he's still convinced he's ugly because it took him so long to meet someone.
Good luck, and I hope you find someone who appreciates you for how hot you really are.
Damn.
2006-11-19 12:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have really nice eyes. There are a few things you could do or maybe can't even change to "improve" your looks if that this what you are looking for. However, I wouldn't say you are ugly. The eyes are a really nice give away and your hair is pretty nice. You have a fun smile so that is attractive. I don't know you in real life so I couldn't say fully. Plus it's not just the looks that count. YOU ARE NOT UGLY...no word of a lie. Like other people said, maybe it's your way of acting or introduction that is doing it. Are you acting like as "A" if you know what I mean? A total jerk? A sleazy weird-o? What type of girl are you looking for? Who are you? Think about these questions. Just be yourself and stop worrying if you are ugly...cause you're not. Maybe try to see what you can do with the facial hair...grow it or shave it? Take care to smile and make eye contact since I'm pretty sure that will help give you a good introduction. What you do from there is up to you. Mess it up or make it go well. Be yourself since it's the best you can do without messing up. Hope we can all help you. Remember...you're not ugly. It's true...you're pretty attractive. Nothing comes easy...nothing that will last longer at least.
2006-11-19 20:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cat_89 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy no one is ugly. Your problem is that you are not appraching a girl the way she want you to apprach her. You need to be more ready in waht you do. If that isn't the problem maybe your time of having a girlfriend is not yet decide but there will be a time when you will be happy. just keep praying i will advise you to go to church and praise god i think if you do that you will see how much he help you. But if you decide not to do that i dont now what will become of you. Also I think you need to be yourself and dont try to be someone else. Dress like a man talk like a man walk like a man do everything or i should say act like a gentleman. Good luck pall
2006-11-19 20:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about it and just get involved in your life. There is nothing wrong with you except for being too focused on yourself.
Girls come and go but the future of your life is fo you to go out and make it happen. By doing that you will meet people who will appreciate you for what you are. For those that don't, why would you care?
2006-11-19 20:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Randy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that ur ugly it's just you haven't found the right girl yet. And to find the right girl you have to be the right guy.These things take time...trust me i'm in the same boat. But keep thinking positive.
2006-11-19 20:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by iris09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no! You're so freakin handsome and I'm not just saying that...are u mexican? ^_^ because you kinda look it to me but I suggest you clear your skin a bit.
Try on-the-spot acne product...it will clear your skin overnight (thats how good it is) :D
And so what? You have a mole.....everyone has at least one mole. No girl will turn you down because you look hella cute and hot.
Smile more and you just havent found the one for you yet...you look pretty young, so I wouldn't worry about it.You can get on-the-spot ance product at Wal-mart or CVS. It is made by the company Netrugena.
2006-11-19 20:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by I'm here to rescue YOU! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First- I hope you are not doing this using a friends pictures as a cruel joke.
If you are serious- you have some acne proplems- but that's about all I see needing some help. You have nice teeth and hair and weight isn't an issue. Just work on clearing up your skin.
Take Care!
2006-11-19 20:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
To be honest, you have nice features, and you look good smiling, but your skin needs help.
Cut out the greasy fast foods, eat healthy whole grain breads and cereals, drink lots of water and exercise. That should help from the inside out with your skin.
good luck, keep smiling, it makes you more user friendly
2006-11-19 20:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what may be ugly to one girl could be incredibly attractive to another. it totally varys. what matters MOST to a girl is confidence. i liked many guys who most people would find "unattractive" because of their confidence. just find someone with many common interests and in no time, you'll have yourself a new gf!
2006-11-19 20:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not even worrying about finding a girlfriend! I got my boyfriend by accident, wasn't even looking! Yes, clear up the skin, be more confident, and get involved with things you like. You will find someone (or she will find you!) in places that spark both of your interests
2006-11-19 20:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by identity crisis! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋