PLEASE! My friends friend is about to go though a abortion... is there anything i can do to stop her?

Question

She is killing here baby and she knows it...i dont want her to be messed up for the rest of her life in regret...HELP?

all right I have had to much of you bull sh*t!!!!!!!!!! what is wrong with you,Im not snooping around! She is my friend too its just i dont see her that much and NO my friend did NOT tell me she would not b/c she have respect for prople. FYI I JUST HAPEND TO GESS WHO IT WAS!!!

I DONT THINK THAT MY RENTS WILL OBJECT TO ME HAVING THE CHILD

Answer 1

Go to www.silentscream.org and show her the video. Pray for her. Her baby will go to Heaven but she will have to live with the guilt of killing an innocent life for the rest of hers. I speak from the same position as you. My best friend had an abortion because she was afraid her parents would disown her and the babys father told her he would leave her if she kept the baby. It has been ten years and she has had more kids but she lives with the guilt every day. I do too as I drove her to the clinic and I should have stopped her or tried harder. She wishes she hadn't done it. Beg and plead, please!

Answer 2

I will you what i would tell any pro-lifer. Here is how you can convince her to change her mind. Tell her you will Personally bring her all her school work every day, so she doent fall behind due to being sick in the AM and all the doctor appointments. You will pay all her medical expenses and give her a place to live forever if her parents freak out and kick her out for being pregant .You will hold her hand and support her always, even at 3 am when she goes into labor. You will get fat for her, go through labor and delivery for her . then diet and excersise for her every day till she gets her figure back. Oh, and you have to raise the baby yourself, whch means quitting school and getting a job at McDonalds since no one else will hire a drop out. No college for you, youll be way too busy raising a baby. No dating, no parties , so long prom....and you will probably have to settle for whatever guy will have you since most guys dont want a girl with a baby(damaged goods , i think your called) Hope you like poopy diapers and can function on 2 hrs sleep cause thats your life now , hunny.But im sure you wont mind sacrficing your life , you being such a good friend and all

Answer 3

There is nothing you can do to stop her. It's her body, and her choice. If you feel this will way on your conscience, do what little you can. Do some research, supply her with information on women who have had an abortion, and their feelings afterward. Give her information on adoption, then leave her alone. It is her body, and her choice to make. She will be the one to have to deal with the consequences of her choice, not you. She isn't killing a baby, she is aborting a fetus. And I guarantee you that if you approach her will that statement you won't get anywhere. She probably feels like she is alone, with no one that cares. Show sympathy, show that you care, and state your opinion, armed with the information, the let her make an informed decision.

Answer 4

There is absolutely nothing you can do, and that is because abortion is that woman's choice. Nobody else's. It is so easy for people to say "well just give it up for adoption" and everything else but the fact of the matter is, if we thought we could go on with the entire pregnancy and give it to someone who would take and love the child, WE would. Nobody asks anti-abortion people to understand our decision, just to let us be. She may live with regret the rest of her life and wonder "what-if" but if she is like me, she will know in her heart that this was the best decision and does not need anyone else to tell her different.

Answer 5

She's not killing a "baby" a baby refers to a born life form. A pregnancy is NOT a baby. You have no right to make any life choices for this girl. It is her body and she has the right to determine whether it will be used as an incubator. You don't KNOW that she will be "messed up" for the rest of her life in regret...I've never regreted my decision to abort, but then I was thinking REALISTICALLY and not emotionally.

Answer 6

it's good that you have friends who respect other people

now, you should copy that example
and show respect for other people
or, in this case,
for the girl whom you "suspect" wants an abortion


as you mature
you will realize that this girl's health choices aren't your business.

only when that girl actually approaches you and brings up the issue
are you entitled to make it your issue.
right now, she hasn't & it's not


the nicest thing you can do is
--let the first friend know that you'd be willing to talk with the girl about her choices (before she has an abortion)
--let the first friend know that you'd be willing to talk/comfort the girl, if she chooses to have an abortion


try to be mature
and unjudgemental
no one wants an hysterical accuser in her face
when she's upset, confused, sad, embarassed, lonely.

if you really want to be helpful
back off

Answer 7

I agree with the other question answerers. If she has her mind made up, then she will do it, and it is really none of your business. It does not matter wether YOU believe in abortion or not, she obviously does, and that is her decision to make. It sounds harsh, but that is life.

Answer 8

It's her choice hun! You can give her information from online and also pregnancy centers but in the end its her choice. Just be an encouragement and let her know that she will regret it the rest of her life. Let her know there are other options such as adoption. My sister is adopted and living. Let her know you want her to keep her baby and you will be there no matter what happens. I wish you luck and I hope this girl chooses life for her baby not death.

Answer 9

Unfortunately there isn't much you can do to stop her. You could go online and look up abortion. There are some horribly graphic photos there that show exactly what an abortion is. Many young women these days don't think that what they are killing is actually human. When they see these pictures they cannot hide from the reality of abortion. It is murder, period. Find some pictures to show her.

Answer 10

If she feels she is doing the right thing for herself, I don't think there's anything you can do. She has to think of herself first. There is no sense bringing yet ANOTHER child into this world who can't be cared for correctly. There is no need to add another child to the long adoption list.