i have this great boy friend hes sweet romantic cute
he basically has the entire package. we are both 13 and are ready to have sex but im really self countious what should i do to get over it?
what do you think? plz help me!!!!!!
2006-11-19 11:09:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Honey wake up.. you guys are thirteen he may be romantic and all the other stuff that you say he is but that doesn't mean you go out and have sex with him. If he is that caring he wont make you and he will wait for you. For all you know you two could be splitting up a month from now, or maybe never but the point is you don't know so don't have sex. Do not have sex until you are sure that you love the person and aren't nervous as much. Do not make the same mistake many people (such as myself) make. I'm sure you are a bright young girl you will know what to do. Good luck in your decision.
2006-11-19 19:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Beautifully*Chaotic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teen Pregnancy :
- Mothers Too Soon
- A Global Tragedy
- Facing the Challenges of Teen Motherhood
- Help and Protection for Young Ones
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2004/10/8/article_01.htm
2006-11-19 19:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOAAAAAA here. You are 13 and are ready to have sex, and what do I think? You are too young to be doing this. What gives you the idea that this is okay in the first place? After this boy dumps you, there will be another, and another, and another, and you will contact STDs which you probably have no idea what this is, plus you will get pregnant at one point and time, and will be an unwed mom with a baby that you will have no idea how to take care of, and you will have to drop out of school. You and your child will be poor, and you will have no chance of continuing your education and will be on welfare. DO YOU GET THE PICTURE? You are way too young, and even older women get themselves in terrible situations that are hard to get out of. How would you explain any of this to your parent/s? How old is Romeo anyway?
2006-11-19 11:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok well i am not trying to be mean but . . . that is WAY TOO YOUNG!!!! I am 13(will be 14 this dec), and i know you might have the perfect boyfriende and whatnot, but after you have sex with someone, everything changes. You probably don't want to get pregnant. Or else there is something wrong with you if you do want to get pregnant. Just at least wait until college to have sex even though i believe we should wait until we get married. try doing other things together, without sex. like dry sex or just plain making out. You are wayy too young!
2006-11-19 17:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u ready to have sex? Just because you have the urge does not warrant being ready. i remember feeling the same way and i honestly can say that waiting a couple extra years will give much better insight and it'll be more enjoyable. the anticipation far exceeds the actual act! Honestly. if you are that certain and u really want to be sexual then practice by yourself. u do not need a guy to satisfy you. the more independent you become, the happier you will be. take a look around at all the guy obsessed girls... they really do look foolish. And .. trust me , a guy will always want the independent girl who doesn't need a guy. girls who cave are the ones they talk about!
2006-11-19 11:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by Barbie W 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should never have sex unless your married. If you have sex, you have the chance of getting pregnant and have to go through birth, abortion, or put the child up for adoption and those are all emotional hazards. You also have the chance of getting infected or getting an incurable STD. I suggest you talk to you parents about this matter. They would know best, and they would help you. You aren't ready to have sex. You're still a minor and you could face charges, it is possible. Don't do it.
2006-11-19 11:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young. Don't have sex until you are ready to be called mommy. I know how you feel I was young once to and thought oh that wont happen to me. Well I was wrong and I had twins when I thought I wouldn't get pregnant I love my daughters very much but you need to really be ready for the consequences before you take that leap.
2006-11-19 11:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mo God, Where have your Parents been the past 13 years? In Cognito? It makes me so angry to see kids your age wanting to have sex. Makes me wonder what kind of parents you have. Not only could you get pregnant, you could get a venerial disease even if a condem is worn. Your going to do what you want anyway but please re think how serious and emotional this will be for you. The first time should be special and with someone your in love with and at age 13 that is NOT possible.
2006-11-19 11:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by julia4evert 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should wait. I had my first sexual experience at 15 and I must say that when I look back I wish I had waited. Sex at 15 was not what I thought it would be, when you're older and more mature you know what it really is that you want and at 13 you're really still a kid, so my advice is to wait until you're older.
2006-11-19 11:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by GOSIA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stand under a spotlight, and display all of your imperfections to him, YOU ARE NOT READY. Unless you can be comfortable enough to be naked, and let him see all the good and bad, rethink this. You are young, and some insecurity goes along with that. When you get older, and meet that ONE special person, you'll find that this isn't a problem.
2006-11-19 12:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋