NO ONES ADVICE will change my decision on telling my mother! i am just looking for other ways to have an abortion without letting her know! some one told me to drink vinegar because it has enough acid and they are experienced do you think that is true? well what other ways are there?
2006-11-19 10:44:37 · 23 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ok, not going to lecture you on your choice, but I will ask you to look at these websites before you do this. If you still want to after you see this, go ahead.
2006-11-19 10:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Patty 3 · 3⤊ 4⤋
If you do anything other than having a medical abortion you run a risk of firstly harming yourself if you do miscarry such as you will need a d&C anyhow to clean out or you could hemmorage and die. Secondly the baby could survive and be born with some real porblems such as missing limbs or metal retardation, downs syndrome, cerebral palsy and then life gets way harder than it ever could have if you would have left well enough alone and just had a normal pregnancy. If you do intend to have an abortion you need to have a medical one where things are done properly. While I do not endorse abortion and wish you would give your baby up for adoption I do realise you will do whatever you wish and all I can do is save your life or your child's mental well-being. Check into a planned parenthood and see what you can do for an abortion. If you are under age then maybe an "adult" friend can take you and sign for you to get the procedure done properly or a friend's mother will understand your situation and help you out. But doing things that potentially "could" kill the baby are barabric and there will be consequences.
2006-11-19 18:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY way to have a SAFE abortion is to go to a clinic and allow a doctor to do it. Drinking vinegar is an OLD WIVE'S TALE. Stop listening to your friends who know as much about abortion as they know where the Garden of Eden is and stick with going to a professional...it could mean the difference between life and death for YOU. If you live in a state where they HAVE to contact your mother by law then you will just have to deal with it. That is one of the things about making adult decisions like having sex, you have to be mature enough to face ALL of the consquences that come from the choices you make.
2006-11-19 21:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vinegar will not help you in this situation... I cannot tell you the "perfect" way to abort a baby. I also can't tell you that your decision is wrong. In some instances, this is the appropriate action for the benefit of the child and yourself. If you can't tell your mother, is there another trusted adult you can ask for help? Being pregnant is scary- having an unwanted pregnancy is even scarier. There are no surefire ways of having a spontaneous abortion, other than using an abortion clinic. Make sure that the clinic is reputable and has board-certified doctors, if this is the route you decide to take. This is why I recommend having an adult with you... it is scary- not only that, but this kind of secret has a way of catching up with you one way or another. If you feel you can't tell your mom and ask for her help, then please talk to another adult.
2006-11-19 18:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by dolphin mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best advice is get some money and go to an abortion clinic do not drink the vinegar if you use Home methods you run the risk of needing a d&c dilaltion and carterise so it is not what i would reccomend but eating a LOT of ginger could be considered a herbal method of sorts but really this is unsafe to you to try to do this at home go to the clinic or county health department they can set you on the right path also depending on which state you live in you may have to tell your mother anyway good luck
2006-11-19 19:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by arianna3at 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are underage you can't have an abortion without your parent with you. Not telling your mother is going to be hard. Drinking vinegar is not going to do anything... there is no way to have an abortion without a doctor, and drinking stuff is not going to get rid of your baby either. If you didn't want to get pregnant then you should have been on birth control or made the guy wear a condom.
2006-11-19 19:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way to "safely" abort a baby is medically, you can go to Planned Parenthood, and they do offer a sliding scale method of payment. Maybe there is another adult that you trust taht can sign the paperwork for you.
2006-11-19 19:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by GrnEyedBandita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GIVE YOURSELF AN ABORTION!!!! depending on your age i believe you can get your rights weavered from a dr. you need to go to a clinic, possibly a free one and tell them your situation. if they think youre mature enough they can allow you to have an aborition by writing out a statement on your behalf. you should really think about what youre doing, i am not trying to get you to change your mind. but is it really worth it to harm yourself by drinking vinegar or some nonsense that people tell you? your mom is going to get mad okay? but at least if you tell her you can have it done with a dr the correct way and not put yourself in harm. adopt is always a choice, you should keep your options open. DO NOT TRY TO GIVE YOURSELF AN ABORTION, I REPEAT.
2006-11-19 18:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by katiesierra86 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't even want to answer this. Drinking stuff does not help. A women that is preggo right along with me drank the stuff while pregnant because she craved it--and she is absolutely fine. Go to family planning and get help there. There really is no way around it. Sorry.
2006-11-19 18:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be kidding, forgive me I don't want to be rude but come on! You can't give yourself an abortion, well if you tried to you'd probably end up hurting yourself, killing yourself or making your child handicap. You need to understand that sex is for when you want to have babies, it's not something you do for fun if you don't want children. BE RESPONSIBLE! If you wnat to get rid of it then go to a planned parenthood and tell them your situation.
2006-11-19 18:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by shontai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to abort? Babies are soo important... Next time you decide to spread your legs, think about the poor baby your producing and then trying to drink vinegar to kill it? HELLO! Vinger is a food! the most it will do to you would make you vomit! Go to Planned Parenthood and do it. I would also talk to my mother.... I know you don't want to.. but you need someone to talk to,,, in a couple of years your going to hate yourself for giving up something you would love and cherish for the rest of your life. GOod luck and no more sex until you can be a responsible adult... K!
2006-11-19 18:48:11 · answer #11 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋