How can I still spend time with my friends?
2006-11-19 09:57:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm assuming when you say "party", you mean drink and do drugs. I think you just need to show them that other things can be fun, and you remember what you did in the morning! Suggest to them some things you like to do; do you like to go to sports events? Get tickets and invite them. Do you like to go dancing? Invite them to go with you to a club.You don't necessarily have to drink alcohol at a club. If they don't take your suggestions, and/or they call you a goody-goody or some such, maybe you need to find new friends. If you try to help them see through the haze and they won't see, you can't make them.
2006-11-19 10:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to make new friends. My daughter is in a similar position. She does a variety of actitivities and still spends time with her friends. Perhaps you could organis e a get together that does not include partying. Maybe you need to take the first step.
2006-11-19 18:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some new friends and keep you liver- seriously= there is a lot more to do than party- and you might try joining different hobbyists- or activities- even volunteering and meeting other volunteers- and people- D
2006-11-19 18:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one of life's hardest lessons in youth. It's time to understand that they aren't really your friends. They're good timers. You'll spend time with good friends when you decide to go find some.
2006-11-19 18:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by nitr0bike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can just tell them strait up that u don't like 2 party and than they will probably understand how u feel and do something else.
2006-11-19 18:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by monica s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what i do is that i go shopping with them and i spend time talking and invite BOYS to my house
but actually that's your decision
2006-11-19 18:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by maria o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent a movie and have everyone over for pizza. If they want to go drinking, tell them it's BYOB.
2006-11-19 18:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them how you feel, then suggest that you guys go see a movie together or something once a month
2006-11-19 17:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋