He comes over to my side of the room, and leans over to 'tie his shoes', giving me a good view of his a**. He is a total straight - hes had at least 15 gf's in 7 months. I am 17 y/o, dreaming about him. But i am really shy, and not ready to come out. I do however, want him, but i don't know if thats what he wants as well. In classes, I catch him staring at me. He is into soccer, and apparently anything except guys.
A guy asked him out before, but he turned it down in disgust - in front of the whole school. I don't want this to happen to me, so if anyone knows how to help, i'd REALLY appreciate it.
2006-11-19 09:53:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know this is a crap answer but it might be best to stay away from him. He might have lots of questions about him self that he has not yet answered. If that is so then you are just setting your self up for a big hurt. Telling somebody who has a major crush to leave it alone is a fools errand. But I am a fool and If you are correct in what you are saying, this might be best as the one you let get away. And not to be crude, but spank bank material at best.
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2006-11-19 09:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude you are 17 you are very young, your personality is in changing right now you thing you are totaly gay in 10 years you will be maried with a woman and have kids.
You realy want this guy but you want him to want you too. Your best bet is to try as much as posible to make him fall for you. You have to get in the best shape ever I mean lean mean muscle. it will take you a year, also try be his best and sincere friend help him with everything he needs. if he does not make the first step dont doit ...wait until college is over or he moves or something happes and then tell him, you dont risk anything then. If he says that he always felt that and he likes you too you can visit.
Be carefull you are a young guy with a frigile soul be prepaired to get hurt and recover. No pain no gain bro this is life, go for it but at least wait so we guys don be in the same scool any more you will evoid the public scandal. You defenetly need to be realy smart about this.
2006-11-19 10:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that he is looking at you only because you are looking at him. And he probably didnt mean to flash you when he bent over, it probably just happened. Or maybe he is just messing with you so he can embarass you. Dont come out yet, people treat kids really bad who arent straight, in high school or junior high. Rumors start fast and dont stop for a long time. Just a word of advice, be sure before ya make your move! Good luck =)
2006-11-19 09:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by thisiswhatisay! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go a head with him (in Private of course) but if he do that may be he likes you
2006-11-19 09:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your original question has nothing to do with your story. obviously this guy is straight and your not going to convert him. trust me hes not into you. to answer your original question. you can tell if a guy is into you if your butthole hurts the next day
2006-11-19 10:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by kalman l 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I strongly suggest that you forget about him, he's straight your not, he's not interested in you, just face it. I also suggest that you get back on track on go straight, because being gay is just......gay!
2006-11-19 09:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Rape him while he sleeps.
2006-11-19 10:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Speedjak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋