Are Cancer and Aquarius not compatible at all?

Question

I read on a website that Aquarius men won't give the Cancer girl enough attention she needs. It also said that he would only be in it for the sex. Is this true because the man I love is an Aquarius?

Answer 1

Allthough Cancer and Aquarius are not really compatible, it is not to the point of "not compatible at all''.
When Cancer and Aquarius make a love match, it can be a case of opposites attracting. Cancer takes an emotional approach to life, Aquarius, an offbeat, unconventional approach. While Cancer often retreats into its shell, Aquarius takes every opportunity to be the extrovert, the organizer and party animal. They love to find themselves amongst friends; social settings are simply their thing! If a Cancer and an Aquarius can find a way to combine these qualities in a positive way, they can go anywhere together.Both Cancer and Aquarius can be ambitious and determined. They want to get their way, and neither likes to conflict. Cancer can be old-fashioned, attached to tradition and routine, their morals more conservative than progressive. Aquarius, on the other hand, is very modern and likely numbed by routine, yawning at the dull and the boring in which Cancer sometimes finds comfort. Cancer may be intrigued by their Aquarius lover's sense of excitement, but this traditional Crab could get frustrated trying to keep up with this revolutionary's mind. Though Aquarius won't appreciate the possessiveness of a pinching Crab, they could find great comfort in the solid base Cancer provides. Just try to get them to admit it! The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Saturn (Karma) and Uranus (Rebellion) rules Aquarius. The Moon is a radiant, feminine energy and Saturn is a cool, contained masculine energy. Uranus is about all things abnormal and novel. The Moon is emotional and concerned with growth and domesticity, both of which become central themes in many Cancer's lives. Saturn deals with hard work and the discipline required for achievement, while Uranus symbolizes forward thought. This combination makes sense for an Aquarian, as they are futurists unafraid of getting their hands dirtied by labor. Cancer mates can teach social, intellectual Aquarius lovers the value of emotional impulses, and their feminine influence will bring beauty and comfort into the home. While Cancer teaches the valuable lesson of an open heart, Aquarius can come right back with the usefulness of a detached heart. Aquarians are blessed to be able to extricate themselves from uncontrollable situations and to reevaluate goals if they get off-course. Not necessarily cold, Aquarius could still benefit from Cancer's warm, feminine Moon-based influence. Cancer is a Water Sign, and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Aquarius sees life as an intellectual exercise, a constant exploration and expansion of the mind. Cancer's more pragmatic. Cancer stops to ask, 'how does this feel?' while Aquarians keep asking 'what else is there?' It may be tough for one to get where the other is coming from, and conflicts can arise if Aquarius gets a little too cool or Cancer too emotionally demanding. They may end up working at cross-purposes: Cancer asks for more and more, Aquarius may pull further and further away. By accepting that their worldviews are dissimilar, Cancer and Aquarius can move on and celebrate their diversity, learn to say 'vive la difference' rather than feeling threatened by it. Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Both persevere when working toward goals. If they have a set path, they'll follow it to the end. With this sort of shared perseverance -- and if they both place a high value on their relationship -- this couple will never be dissuaded from that knowledge and will constantly think of one another. If they run into snags, Aquarius will discover that Cancers, though they may seem shy and retire into their shells, can actually be very tenacious and dogmatic, not above using emotional manipulation on their loved ones. Also, Aquarius could be bothered by Cancer's over-emotionality. If they agree to work toward a common goal, these two can get along. What's the best thing about the Cancer-Aquarius love match? When they decide to come together, they are an indomitable force! When they decide to combine their disparate energies, Cancer and Aquarius can find their own natural balance and have fun with their differences rather than letting them frighten them away from a chance to love.

Answer 2

I was with an Aquarius and can honestly say after about the 1st 3 months we weren't happy. Not because we didn't love each other, we did very much, we just didn't have the same view on life and everything. He's really distant and that really bothered me. He ended it and took it pretty easy actually. I didn't of course. But that was our problem, he was just so empty and never really understood. If you guys can work everything out and actually be happy then there's always a chance of it working(: We were together for almost a year. A couple week's short. Cancer Sun Taurus Moon

Answer 3

Cancer and Aquarius

When you meet a quirky Aquarian it can be love at first sight, for the sexual attraction is intense. This fascination is partly due to the very different ways in which you each approach the world. Aquarius is intellectually adventurous, emotionally detached and fairly self-contained. Cancer is creative, yet deeply emotional and quite tender at heart, beneath that legendary shell. Your sensuality and romantic imagination will intrigue the Water Bearer, whose sexual fires are stoked by your willingness to enjoy the excitement of those unconventional Aquarian appetites.

Cardinal Cancer, a Water Sign, is ruled by the changing Moon, while unconventional Aquarius, an Air Sign, is ruled by structured Saturn and offbeat Uranus. Saturn is intellectual, cool and structured, while the Moon is nurturing, inward-looking and growth-oriented. This mixture, when put in a structured goal-directed environment, can be very productive, due to your canny creativity and motivated emotional power, combined with the Water Bearer's lateral thinking and ability to maintain a steady approach. The combination of nurtured growth and structured development and of masculine and feminine energy is potentially rewarding, but you'll need to develop mutual goals and work together on projects that you can share, so that the energies can be put to work instead of degenerating into jealousy and restlessness.

The Water Bearer's need for freedom and independence can be quite threatening, for stability and security are high on your list of needs. Aquarius, who is fundamentally a lone wolf, likes to spend plenty of time alone to explore the mental avenues so dear to that Sign. To be fair, your emotional nature, which is both demonstrative and possessive can imperil this independence and hem in the Water Bearer, who will then retreat to an ivory tower, if not actually packing up and moving to Katmandu.

You need emotional closeness, but Aquarius fears this kind of intimacy. If you love an Aquarian, you'll need to modify your demands if you want to keep the relationship alive.

Answer 4

You're the traditional, sentimental type, Cancer. Aquarius, on the other hand, is more eccentric, and lets go of feelings easily. Your partner has big ideals, and is often more concerned with saving the world than with handing you a tissue to wipe up your tears. While you tend to live in the past, Aquarius is always looking toward the future. With a few adjustments - you'll have to trust your Aquarian love more, and he or she will have to adjust to your ever-changing emotions - the two of you can learn how to live happily together in the present.

Answer 5

You say that you love this man. But go some web site that knows nothing about you and gave doubts you did not have before. Just because of both of your birthdays. In reality that makes it a form bigotry.
Think about it, astrology really seems to be biased against itself. It does not consider age differences, education, race, sexual orientation, nationality, religion, or economic stature important. But an easiest, most reliable way to see whom is compatible for you is his birthday. Take it further; do the same with your family and friends. Are they all compatible and if not what do you do?
Nobody has control when or where they are born. Why would you or anyone want to be judged that way?

Answer 6

you as a cancer are a water sign and would be more compatible with fellow water signs like scorpio or pisces or with earth signs like taurus capricorn and virgo and the guy that you like is an aquarius which is an air sign who would be more compatible with fellow air signs such as libra and gemini or fire signs like sagitarius leo or aries anyway as a water sign you tend to fall in love deeply and can be a bit clingy where an aquairus is more free spirited and likes their space he would feel as if he were drowning in the water and couldn't breathe so no it wouldn't be a good match at all sorry

Answer 7

I tried going out with a cancer once. I am an aquarian, and had been corresponding with this person for sometime.

Well, she turned out to be a needy yet superficial idiot who was afraid of confrontation to the point of completely avoiding disagreement with anyone and everyone, even when they ran over her. Plus, she was arrogant as hell. I really liked her, but we couldn't have been more incompatible.

Answer 8

I was married to an Aquarian. Don't be afraid to tell him when he does stuff that makes you upset or sad. It can work if you BOTH understand the others shortcomings and work on the love affair. I am a Cancer.

Answer 9

Aquarius girl here sex is amazing my god made me speak in toungue and yeah it can work out its challenging but worth it in the end good luck 😉😊

Answer 10

aquarians are very independant. they love to move around and meet people. they are very active. cancers tend to prefer staying home so they can have dependancy issues. but anything's possible