For some guys I know, looks are everything. But I want to know truthfully, would you go out with a girl if she was fat? I am not fat but my friend is in denial and I want to know.
2006-11-19 08:37:24 · 21 answers · asked by Melvin W 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Me personally, I would not go out with a fat chick. I am in good shape and I would expect the same. I would go out with someone who is a little bit overweight. I just wouldn't go out with someone who ismore then 30 or 40 lbs overweight. Its just not appealing to me and I wouldn't be very happy with it.
2006-11-19 08:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by treeman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer to this question lies in your definition of "skinny." I know even amongst women it varies dramatically. Some women by any standard are average weight for their height but describe themselves as skinny - a similiar woman might call herself heavy. Most men do not demand that a woman be anorexic looking, rather healthy is preferred. Consistently women are usually harsher judges of their bodies than are men. Don't forget that attitude and personality go a long way in comprising what makes a woman attractive too
In short having an accurate concept of your relative skinniness or fattness is probably the most healthy. If you are not happy with were you are, adopt better habits and start working out.
Good luck.
2006-11-19 16:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by c_schumacker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the girl has some extra pounds and a pretty face she's in an excellent place for romance. If those extra pounds are hanging all over ( especially her belt) it's a definite turn off to most guys that are in shape and attractive to larger guys. This isn't a hard fast rule but it's my opinion.
2006-11-19 16:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female, back on the dating scene after a LOT of years....I have found that it does indeed matter to guys. It seems like they are all looking for the "Barbie Doll" type. Even the ones who are not decent looking themselves. I am not fat, but I am far from skinny, I am educated, and thus far, all I find are superficial guys looking for a quick lay from Barbie...
2006-11-19 16:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by mlw6366 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like pleasantly plump women myself and i'v dated all sizes,and usually the good looking women with the hour glass figure think they are a celeberities,like i'm Gods gift to man with a personality like a rock.Most dont even kiss good.. Personality is 90% of the perfect man or woman,we are looking at the attitude not so much the body and i'm sure its the same way with the women also..dont you?
2006-11-19 17:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally.. I have dated a heavy set woman... So, yes, I would date a 'fat' woman... But I don't. Once I dated a woman who was size 0, i'll never again date anyone beyond a size 3.
2006-11-19 16:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Adam W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-19 16:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by dogreallys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some men that like big women and really skinny women. But their numbers are limited so a larger or very skinny woman's options are less than one that is more proportional.
2006-11-19 16:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does matter... u dont want to bring home a fat girl to show ur parents u need to find a skinny hot girl
2006-11-19 17:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by yoooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But it is my problem not yours. So often I hear people say that it doesn't matter. Or someone takes on more of the problem than is healthy for them. I believe it is all a matter of attitude. I may not like what I see, but that is my problem. And I try not to dump it on my girl.
2006-11-19 16:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by mike t 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋