I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months, we liked each other Freshman year and were always together, he moved before we graduated from high school and now almost 3 years later I found him and we decided to go out....all my friends think that he is drop dead gorgeous and they like him alot, but i have noticed that he has been inviting this one girl over to our apartment and she has said that she would if he would go get her....i love this guy to death and i dont want to make him feel uncomfortable with my jealousy, but this is really hurting me....
2006-11-19 08:32:39 · 7 answers · asked by angelbaby8087 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
talk to your boyfriend about your concerns, he shouldn't have any female over your place especially since he is in a relationship with you, it is disrespectful for him to be doing so, you are not being jealous you are just concerned about the things going on and deserve the same amount of respect from your boyfriend that you give him...
2006-11-19 08:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to have a talk with him to find out why he keeps inviting her over. Because if your her gf why are you not saying nothing about it. You need to sit him down and explain to him that he's hurting you when he does that and also tell him if she's going to replace you what's up. You should have done that already but you really love him but does he feel the same. If he does why is he doing this?
2006-11-19 08:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but your suspicions are probably true. if he's inviting her over, that means he's interested. it's not you being jealous, it's your mind screaming at you to get rid of him. you may love him, but it looks like he's not worried about hurting your feelings. talk to him, tell him how you feel, and if he still invites the other girl over, then you have a decision to make. either her, or you.
2006-11-19 08:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think something is happening it most likely is, get rid of him and find someone who will adore you. Oh and dont look just for the most attractive people, less attractive people always try harder and they know they cant do any better so they will treat you better in the long run.
2006-11-19 08:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by philliesmeyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can't show that you are jealous but somehow get rid of her. May be you should start inviting a guy and then he will know how you feel.
2006-11-19 08:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by observer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so who does he say this girl is? did he even bother talking to about her coming to you apartment before he brought her there? when she is there how do they act with each other? or more importantly how do they act with you.i think you need to ask him, more about who she is and tell him that from now on if she is going to come over he should talk to you first.don't be afraid to tell him that you don't feel comfortable about her spending to much time at your place.
2006-11-19 08:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, all u can do.
2006-11-19 08:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋