A long time ago i was with a fat girl. After the second day i knew her, I was intimate with her. I noticed that she would try to turn all the lights out and turn off the t.v. She wanted no light in the room. NOw that i think about it. It is kinda of strange. But at the time I guess I had other priority on my mind.
2006-11-19 08:28:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Maybe because she didn't want you to see her crying...
2006-11-19 08:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by gamerunner2001 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because Shawn, we are self conscientous about whether the guy is with us because of our looks or because they geniunely care about us. If you will notice the Yahoo avatars don't have any heavier set builds on it. This indicates to me that I must take on an avatar that isn't my true self or wear a male avatar that they assign me. Guys (and society) in general don't normally accept fat girls and sometimes won't give them the chance to allow them to get to know us.And for allot of guys it is a real hang up to see a heavier set girl in the nude.
I hope you are not like that. By labeling her as a "fat girl" you have already shown that you have a problem with it.
2006-11-19 08:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be kidding me...you have just classified this girl with one of the most insulting adjectives you can. "fat girl" should tell you the answer. Psychologically, having the lights out makes her feel like she is more attractive because you can't see her...plus it makes her feel more comfortable because she can't see herself either. And gee, what does having sex on the second day say about her self esteem? do you always move that quick? obviously you don't have much respect for yourself or do you just need to "rack 'em up" for the experience? Hope you used protection, sexually transmitted diseases are more common than just HIV and Aids, you don't hear about the ones that will actually get you!
2006-11-19 08:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by nut4jc 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Moped girlfriends (fun to ride but you don't want your friends to see you on it) are self conscious about their body. She more than likely thought that you will be visually turned off (or worse) by the appearance of her body. Too bad, really - especially if you like heavier women. (Though why would you call her "fat"?) If you like full figured then let her know and continue to encourage her to show you her body. I suspect she will eventually come to trust that you are telling her the truth and allow the lights to be on. Of course, if you gain that trust you absolutely can not recoil in horror if you see something you don't like. Good luck.
2006-11-19 08:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by c_schumacker 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you really have issues with fat girls huh? Is that because you were one before the sex change? And now you're just a fat unhappy man instead?
2006-11-19 12:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♥N,K,E&DJ'§ Mommy♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not strange at all alot of woman and men make-out and have sex in complete darkness if anything you seem to be strange by asking this question?
2006-11-19 08:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe its the fact that you label her as a "fat girl" How can someone feel comfortable when they are ridiculed all the time?
2006-11-19 08:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by miss-ag 1 · 11⤊ 0⤋
i think any girl who is not comfortable with her body would want to turn all the lights off. they may think that they would turn you off when you see their body when you are intimate.
or maybe she is just shy.
2006-11-19 15:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by jae 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because she is self conscious of her body, and labeling her 'fat girl' is extremely rude.
2006-11-19 08:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Adrianna 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure your question is well intentioned
surely you'd know about women being self conscious expecially if you'd describe or otherwise betray your opinion of them as 'fat'
2006-11-19 08:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
they were probably uncomfortable with their body, as you said she was overweight. there may be some heavier girls that aren't bothered by having the lights on during sex, you just have to find one.
2006-11-19 08:30:54 · answer #11 · answered by fan_of_the_dolphins 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋